Christmas

Another Christmas. Boy, it sure went by fast! Hard to believe we wait so many days for the 1 event.

It was a different Christmas for us this year. We spent the 24th at my parent's house, and then on the 27th, we spent it at my in-laws. So, the actual day of Christmas, we were all at home and chilling. Never changed out of my pjs. It was great! I didn't feel like I was rushed to do anything. Sure, I cooked meals for folks and they were more extravagent than a normal day. But still, it was easy peasy. That's about the only chore I did. I promised myself that would be the only one I did because I know I work hard throughout the year.

Though we did have a bit of drama on the 24th. My youngest daughter was quite sick with a cold and started up with a fever. And she was quite uncomfortable while we were at my dad's for Christmas dinner. We left much earlier than expected, but my parents were very understanding.

When we got home, my daughter settled down, the meds were kicking in and she started to sleep. At about 11 something, my daughter gets up screaming! She's in the bathroom and basically has a bleeding nose. No big deal...but the sight is pretty horrifying. I pinched her nose, got tissue to plug her up and tilt her head forwards to avoid any nausea.

Well, after a couple of minutes, I was starting to freak out because her nose started to bleed like an actual faucet. And I'm not even remotely exaggerating here. It was completely flowing out quick and fast. By then, I was yelling loud enough for my husband to come out and help. It just didn't look right.

Sure enough, he agreed that it didn't look right and this kid's nose kept flowing. Oh, it really did look like a horror show around here. I've never seen this kid bleed like this. And I did end up calling the ambulance. I figured that I'd rather have them call me a total moron and pay the $54 than have my kid bleed to death. For my husband to be concerned too, you know it was looking bad.

The paramedics really were good to us and they didn't make us feel stupid at all. But by the time they came, sure enough, the flow had slowed. They checked her out and they made sure we knew to call them again if there were any concerns.

When everything was said and done, I went downstairs to just grab some water. When I looked at the clock, it was exactly 12:00am Christmas morning. Knowing my kid was fine was a very good Christmas present indeed.

Bedding

I've been suffering through allergies since I was a teenager. It's pretty common stuff like pollen, dust, cats and dogs. Definitely cats and dogs which makes it a really good reason for not having them in the house. Sorry kids, no pets.

But I wonder about stuff like allergy bedding? From what I understand, this type of bedding protects me from dust mites and allergies. The idea is good and they don't seem to be bulky or anything like that. When I first read about them, I just thought they were going to be big plastic sheets. LOL! Glad I was wrong.

But it may be worth a try as it seems that my allergies are getting worse over the years. Sure makes me grumpy.

US Jobs

I have a friend that gets to travel around the world a bit because her husband is a professor. He visits different universities and he researches in different places. Pretty skookum if you ask me.

But I wonder, if I were the wife, how easy would it be to adjust? I wouldn't be able to really find a job because it would have to be and only be for a short period of time. How easy would it be to actually find jobs in philadelphia pa or any city in Europe, etc? My resume would be very sketchy.

But it would allow me to travel and see so many places around the world. Oh, life can always seem greener on the other side doesn't it?

Online University

I'm happy that I finished my university degree. At the time, I wasn't so sure it would serve me any good, but it has and I'm truly thankful for it. But in this day and age, to me, the university degree is now the absolute minimum for education. That to me is scary. I know of some co-workers who are working full time, are parents, do a ton of stuff, and go to school at the same time. Wow. They are hard core.

So, my thought was maybe doing something like an online degree. I figured it would be something that I could do on my time and find sessions that work for me. The hard part will be sifting through the different online universities and ensuring one works for me. Of course, I'll have to determine if this is truly the right time for me to actually do something like this.

At some point, I think further education will be needed as I really do think that extra education is never a bad thing. And if anything, sure helps out with the tax return!

Dreams

Dreams. We all have them. May it be while sleeping, or the big dreams we make for ourselves that we hope one day come true. When we're sleeping, we can't control any of those dreams.

But for some, dreaming is just another word for an action plan. For some, those big dreams do come true. Maybe it's being the CEO of a certain company. Maybe it's taking a big trip around the world. The dream can be as big or as small as you want.

But what happens when those dreams for yourself don't work? I just found about a great friend whose dream may not come true. And it's heartbreaking to know that. It's been a while since I've seen anybody so motivated to do something and worked her butt to get to that stage. But she's gotten to a point where unfortunately, she may no longer to go on for a number of reasons.

And so, what do we do with those unclaimed dreams? What do we do with those thoughts of never getting there? I've had dreams myself that I know will never be fulfilled, even though I tried pursuing them. Yes, I had my moments of dwelling on those failures. But now when I look back, those were not failures, but truly learning moments. I learned much about my character, I learned about other possibilities, I learned that not all dreams were meant to be. No matter what though, I learned to live through those without regrets. And I hope, truly hope that my girlfriend will see this one day too.

Not chasing a dream at all and living in regret is much more painful.

Parties

'Tis the season for Christmas parties!! Last night, we had a number of close friends come out to celebrate. As always, no one starved which means we were all in some form of food coma for part of the night.

But if anything, it was just so fantastic to see friends, how well they are doing, how happy they are and catch up with everybody. It was amazing see the little kidlets...some were not kidlets anymore. Seeing this type of change just is a firm reminder of how quickly time passes and how important it is to keep up with friends and family as much as possible.

It was just such a carefree night and everybody yapped their little mouths off. I'm thankful for such a night, grateful for a full tummy and extremely grateful for such wonderful friends.

Spam

The filters at my work e-mail address is not working. I have been getting quite a bit of spam mail which is quite unusual as the spam filters and whatever walls the techies put up have worked very well in the past. But now, I'm getting things for an enlargement of certain parts, slimming pills, and world music. I was actually kind of interested in the world music one...but I figured I better not read those ones because with my luck, I'd spread some virus.

I just hope my techies don't think I'm randomly signing up for stuff at work...especailly the enlargement of the male you know what!! I'd hate for them to start calling me Alex.

Basement

I think my husband and I need another date to clean up the basement. Last year, we spent a whole day reorganizing the basement because it was turning into a junkyard. We were so happy.

But again, the basement is being used as storage. And rightfully so...but still. How in the world did we accumlate that stuff?!!!

Or we could be smart and actually start working on the basement. Perhaps a bar with real bar faucets? Hmmm...I don't drink. I like the idea of a play room/tv room.

But until we actually have a plan and we clean the thing up...it'll just be an unfinished basement for now.

House

I like the tiles in my house...especially the ones on the kitchen floor. However, I'm having some serious issues cleaning the grout between them. I break a sweat everytime I work on those damn things. I guess it's good exercise. But the in between never looks "clean."

Or maybe it's just that there is so much traffic through this house that everything just seems in there. Ugh.

I need a full time maid. Really.

Christmas Gifts

Well, my husband just screwed it up for me this year. For once, I had an idea of what to get him. For once, I wasn't even stressed about his gift. I think he's one of the hardest people to shop for.

So this year, I was going to get him one of the e-readers. Perfect for when he's on the plane, reading at night, or just needs 50 books at one time. I was waiting for some sales, had all the accessories planned out to.

So, what does he tell me? "I went to the store and I looked at one of those e-readers. I'm not going to get one until they improve. They're crap right now." The perfect gift out the window. And upon further review, yes, they could be better before I buy him one.

I basically asked what he wanted. I think he mentioned something about video cards. Any element of suprise is gone now.

Cars

Earlier this year, my husband and I got a Mazda 5. We needed a bigger car for a number of reasons. And the sheer fact that our VW was in bad shape was a good reason to get a new car. But we were having a hard time deciding on what type of car we wanted.

In the end, we were choosing between a Dodge Journey and the Mazda 5. Obviously, price was an issue. But there were other things to consider, long term viability, selling value if were to sell it, room, etc. Thank goodness for the internet because I could do a lot of research about the cars, go to websites like Mopar parts to see how much spare parts would be, read reviews and opinions, etc.

Overall, I'm glad we put in the time to do the research and that we stuck with our Mazda. It's been a great drive so far and I'm looking forward to many years with it. Zoom, zoom!

Bluray or Dvd

Many years ago, when DVDs first came out, I was the first one to say "is it really better and do we need it?" Well, after I got one, I shut up. I actually changed my tune quickly and thought DVDs were the next best thing.

Now, it's Bluray. We have a PS3 which coincidentally is one of those Bluray dvd players. My husband was all excited about it. Me? Not so excited. And to be honest, now that I've actually seen one or 2 on the console, I can honestly say, I can't tell the difference. I find the menus harder to navigate though.

So, right now, if I had a choice of whether or not to buy a DVD or the Bluray...for the savings, I think I'll stick with the DVD.

Concert

For once, I didn't go to a Christian concert...though another one would be fun. Today, I got to go to a taiko concert. In fact, it was the 30th Anniversary Taiko concert of Katari Taiko (KT) ...the taiko group I used to belong to. Part of the reason why I went was of course to see the group play. The other half was to speak at the concert.

I was asked (and I know the group was getting desperate when they asked me) and I said yes. And as much as I hate public speaking, I owed them at least that. KT was extremely good to me, taught me lots and very supportive of my choices, including when I had to leave to have children.

And sitting in the concert today and watching how the group has continuously grown and bloomed in creative ways really evoked a lot of different emotions in me. Part of me was so proud to have been part of something something wonderful. I felt so drawn to the music as I knew many of the songs and I just wanted to get up and play! It was incredible to see how these folks moved effortlessly. And there was one song called 3+3 that was played, and honestly, it was one of the most incredible taiko pieces I've heard just 2 people play. So many great moments and it went by in a flash.

Some of the other emotions that I felt had to do with loss and coming to terms with choices. As much as I am grateful for my 2 kids and the life that I have, it's also these choices and this lifestyle that prevents me from playing taiko. And it was comforting to know that a previous member that played with me for many years felt the same way. We sat there during intermission like old fogies thinking about the past. So many good memories.

I hope that one day I will go back to taiko. Or maybe, if I start making my own drums...I can start my own taiko group out here. Anybody want to join?

Vacations

Seems like everybody is going on one...except me! We have a lady at the office that is going to Africa for about 4 or 5 weeks. Good on her, well, more like I'll get quiet at the office. But that's besides the point. Someone upstairs is taking one of those orlando vacations. Someone else is going to New Zealand. I miss my travelling days.

Oh, I think I'd be happy if I had to Greyhound it somewhere....

Work

We always plan for a certain type of work day...but holy smokes! Any of my "planned days" for the last bit have not looked remotely like it should! It's quite humourous in some ways. I figure it's easier to laugh about it or get pissed about all the things that I wish were different.

But I'm not complaining because I still really do enjoy my job. But sometimes I have to shake my head and just do all that I can possibly do in a day. The work will still there be tomorrow.

I guess I'm just tired. It's been a while since I've had a serious break from kids, errands, chores, playing chauffeur, etc. I'm not expecting to take a "real" holiday anytime soon.

But I just have to power through this. I have a date day planned with my husband soon so that should help lighten my mood a bit. Every bit of play time helps....

Informercials

I'm notorious for watching these things. It's like a car crash...no matter how bad they are, you just can't stop watching.

Anyways, I'm sure most folks have seen the walk in bath one. Lately I've been seeing it more or maybe it's just on and I'm paying more attention to it. Part of it is that I'm thinking about my parents. They aren't spring chickens and their bath tub is quite low. I'm always worried that they will slip and fall. I know my dad took a dive on the side walk not too long ago...a bathtub is way easier to slip in.

So, yes, I might have to get a brochure or something just to see how much they cost. Who knows what my parents will need as they age? I'm sure there will be many more infomercials to watch....

Computers

Oh, I just talked about things being backed up...and at work, we have a network where everything gets backed up. But OMG. When one of the hard drives at work take a dive and a person has saved their stuff there rather than the network, they're screwed.

There is nothing like an officer coming into to work trying to get their laptop to function when it goes to crap. I can not tell you in the last year how many blue screens of death I've had on my laptop at work. But knowing that I saved it on the network, doesn't bother me much.

I wonder if the techies should just remove those drives from some of the officers...maybe it'll force them to save on the network like they're supposed to.

Pictures

I love the fact that I have the option of digital cameras these days. There is a certain cool factor with old school cameras. But knowing that I can take a gazillion pictures just because I can and see them right away is really quite amazing.

However, because I'm taking THAT many pictures, it means storage is an issue. I think my pc is going to max out soon. But part of my concern is if my computer craps out. Thank goodness for the external hard drive. That baby has saved my butt once and I was grateful. Basically I back up all my pictures on this drive. If my computer goes bye bye, I still have all my pictures. Everything else is easy to replace...pictures are not.

So, if you haven't backed up lately or don't have a source to, find something like this so that you're not kicking yourself when you lose some of your most precious memories.

Movie

The family went out to a movie today. It was between Where the Wild Things Are or Astroboy. When my husband showed the girls the previews for both of the films, my one kid when watching Where the Wild Things are shouted "that's boring me!" Ok, guess the decision was made to go watch the colourful Astroboy.

I used to watch that Japanese cartoon ALL the time when growing up. Every Sunday at 4:30pm on UTv which is now City TV. It was a rocking show...red boots and all. So, I was quite stoked about watching this movie as I really did have fond memories of the cartoon.

The animation was great! And the little boy looked just as I remembered and cute as can be. I must say, I fell in love with the film. I actually cried in a number of places as the story was really well done. I totally bought into the whole story line. And the machine guns out of the butt scene never gets old.

So if you have kids that are the appropriate age, I'd take them. Great messages about finding our place in this world (small MWS reference to all those that know who this...LOL!, love, acceptance and friendship. Kudos to the film.

Ads

So, I was on Facebook the other day (suprise, suprise...but my café needs me!)...and I clicked on one of those ads on the side. I know...crazy, but I did. Sometimes they do have somewhat intriguing ads.

Anyways, there was mention of an insurance company. I can't remember what the "draw" was. But the message was something along the lines of "compare the biggest life insurance carriers for free." Then it got me thinking...how many life insurance carriers are out there? I'm with two different ones and my husband is one that is the same as one of mine. But these are pretty big companies. Are there really THAT many out there?

I'm glad I didn't know about them because it would be way too much research for me to do. And I would probably get frustrated and not buy any. But at least, I've got it and my family is protected.

Window Shopping

The other day, I took my one kid out to her Girl Guides meeting. So, I had about 50 minutes to kill and I had my other kid with me. So, we wandered over to one of the malls. Everything was pretty much closed except one store. We went in and just wandered around. Now, it's not like I have much that I would change around the house...but I saw this lighting fixture that I wanted!

Believe me when I say that I'm not a person that gets THAT excited about things like this. But I thought it was classic, but yet modernized enough that it was chic and wouldn't lose it's charm.

I'm telling you...window shopping is DANGEROUS. I didn't buy it but now I have this stupid idea in my head that it would be nice to get.

Bed

When I was younger, I read the articles on how much it would cost to raise a kid to a certain age. I think at that time it was about $125,000. Hee hee. The other day, I heard the same type of report and that number has been boosted up to about $250,000+. And I believe it.

Every day, it seems like the kids come home from school for some fundraising event or some pamphlet to buy something. Or they're growing out of their clothes and shoes so fast that you're constantly buying stuff. Or maybe because you need to buy your kid a mattress. My one kid is sleeping off an older bed that's really more futon like than anything else. She's more than happy with it, but it's starting to come apart, i.e. little balls. It's odd. But that's a good chunk of change gone and to add to the looming $250,000 bill.

Storage

I know some of my friends do the backup thing by doing an an online backup. It has its pros and cons. Pro - it's online and you don't have any extra equipment lying around. And it really will last "forever." However, paying for the service is a con. Obviously, these guys have to make money. But I think for me to back up all that I want, it would cost way too much. I don't know how many thousands of pictures I have, or e-mails, or personal documents. I don't think I could afford it long term. Knowing my luck, I'd probably forget my password and lose all my data. But having the choice is good enough for me.

Uniforms

The other night, I went to a dinner that was provided by Coke-a-Cola. This is they company that I'll be working for as a contractor during the Olympic games. The dinner was a chance for the team members to meet each other and to also give staff a chance to see the new uniforms.

I was a little worried about these uniforms because if they were anything like the Beijing Canada ones, I was going to quit. The 2008 ones were TERRIBLE and I mocked them like there was no tomorrow.

Dinner was fantastic! And extra awesome because it was free. Can't remember the last time the company paid for a meal.

But the uniforms were totally wicked. Basically we all get some variation of the uniform. Long sleeve shirts, zip up hoodies, hats, mittens, roll on duffel bags, etc. I was very happy with the colours, the uniform wasn't tacky and it would be something that I wouldn't be embarrased to wear. What amazed me even more about the uniforms and gear...it's worth approximateyly $900. Whoa. For one month of work, they will pay people to wear uniforms that cost that much?! Wow. They must be rolling in the dough. As a sidenote, did you know that the Coke company (beverages of all kinds) sells approximately 11,000 drinks worldwide every 1.4 seconds?!!!

Anyways, I'm happy and will be proud to wear the uniform.

Dedicated Pet Owners

Well, I'm no dedicated pet owner because I won't even get goldfish for my kids. I'm allergic to furry animals. But the way I've been talking about how I'm allergic to animals, the kids are convinced that I'm allergic to things like goldfish. Let them hold onto that idea for many years to come. I don't want a pet...it's like a kid.

But one of my co-workers is dedicated as can be. Instead of going out for lunch or breaks, she will go out with her dog 3 times while she's at work. She has an electric blanket in the car for the dog. I mean, that is well beyond what I would do for any pet.

Good on her, but she can do it for me too. I'm really not a pet lover and will never be.

Other Ideas

So, after seeing some of these reno magazines that my husband brought home, I've been thinking of having some tiles on the wall behind my stove. Eeeek. The splashes of oil, sauce, etc., are starting to take a toll on that wall.

I saw some stainless steel tiles that looked neat. But I'm not so sure. One of the reasons why we didn't get a stainless steel fridge was due to all the fingerprints!!! They never leave or you're constantly wiping down the appliance. I have enough on my hands.

So, what kind of backsplash? Not sure...but one that's easy to clean for sure and one that matches the decor of the house....

Oh, the possibilities.

US Channels

When I watch my shows, I usually tape them 3 hours ahead of time. The only problem is I get all the US commercials too. Most of them are fine and what we would get her. But OMG. When I start getting things for things like the Tacoma car accident lawyer, or for the carpet place in the middle of nowhere, then I get annoyed. Partly because none of that stuff has to do with me. But I guess the little guys have to advertise somehow too. Wish I could filter that stuff.

Oh wait. That's what a PVR is for!!!

Laughter in the Workplace

We have a semi-new employee at the office and she's sweet as can be. But she's never worked in government before and I have to remember that...especially when she has questions that I really want to giggle at. The question, not the person.

The last little bit, she's been having problems logging in. Basically it's just taking way too long. On the one day she worked at home, she asked her techie husband what could be the problem. He said that the laptop may not have enough computer memory.

She came back to the office and she asked her manager if she could get more memorry for her laptop to run better. His response was, go ahead and ask the techies but don't be suprised if they laugh at you and walk away.

The techies aren't mean. But really, when it comes to certain government departments and technology, we are like 5 years behind. MS office 2003? WHATEVER. I'll have to wait until at least 2012. And that's probably ahead of the game.

So my co-worker didn't want to be laughed at...at least not today and decided not to ask the techies.

Exercise Equipment

My girlfriend has a Life Fitness treadmill. Looks pretty fancy shmancy. But the treadmill isn't my thing. Impact is hard on my knees. And I don't really have the right area to put the thing. Maybe in front of the tv would be good?!

But no, I'm not getting one. I tend to like trying different equipment but can get bored very easily. I should look into rental of equipment...once I get bored of something, can I trade it in for something else? And if it's too big, I can return it without the hassle.

Haven't found the service yet so I will have to stick to my bulky equipment.

Sinks

I don't know why my husband brings home reno magazines or pictures of really nice houses that we can't even afford. Those are nice magazines...but I really don't need to be looking at houses that are 5 million dollars.

The renos seem a little more reasonable. And it's not that I need to do renovations now, but wow, I've been thinking about them because of these magazines!! We haven't finished the basement yet, so the reno ideas could most likely be used there. I've been looking at the stone sinks. Those look pretty awesome. I have no idea of the price and I guess I don't have to worry about it until then.

Ooooo...the possibilities!

Gobble Gobble

Well, Thanksgiving has come and gone. And it was good this year. The in-laws invited us and they didn't need us to bring anything. We had an early dinner which meant we all got home at a decent time but we all felt like we actually caught up with each other and enjoyed each other's company.

My girls got some much needed downtime. Oh, they needed it. With all their activities and homework, they just needed to enjoy time off too. My husband and I caught up on a ton of tv. We cleaned up. Got lots of baking done.

And we even got to go to the One of a Kind show. It was ok as much of the vendors were the same. But it was just nice to try the new Canada Line. THAT is skookum by the way. And just being downtown on a beautiful day...just fantastic.

So anything earth shattering I did? Nope. It's just what we needed though.

However, tomorrow it's back to the grind. Waiting for the next long weekend....

Accessories

I've never been a car accessories type of person. My car might have garbage, food bits, books and tissues around. But never accessories. I don't even like to hang those dangly things on my rearview mirror. Too distracting. And those air fresheners, not my thing. Stuffies? Only my kids stuffies. Those seem neat in someone else's car...but not mine. I'm a plain Jane when it comes to these types of things. And I'm just too darn cheap to buy any.

Losses and Gains

I had a friend that went big time onto some weight loss pills. Personal choice. However, after taking a full round of these things...she wasn't careful and continued on some bad habits. So, within days, everything came back. So she's pretty pissed and I don't blame her.

Maintenance is the key. But I should be one to talk. I was doing so well, but life got in the way. Everybody got sick. The kids are in a gazillion lessons. Work is nuts. And the commute it long. Though my work life balance is pretty good, it's obvious it needs to get better so I can exercise more regularly.

But that's life. I'll get the balance at some point.

Cigars

I must admit, I'm a total square when it comes to smoking. I've never tried it, never wanted to and couldn't care less about it. But for some reason, the smell of a good cigar seems ok and actually pretty good! Not that I'm willing to try it because I'm worried that I might actually like it!!! Then I'll be poor from buying really good ones.

Anyways, I find that there is almost something appealing about a person that smokes these things. Ironic, I know.

Oh well, not everything makes sense in my world.

Websites

Lately, I've been finding a ton of new foodie websites or kitchen related ones. I just find it so much fun to read and get some awesome reviews on things that I may be thinking of buying. But I find it ironic that usually the ads on the side are for top weight loss pills. But hey, sites need advertisers. That's just the way it is. Who am I to judge what a site uses for advertising and gaining revenue?

In the meantime, I will continue to find new websites that I can drool over....

Planning

I'm a bit of an organized freak. I know that looking inside my house you would never think that. But I like planning things. It's fun. And when you have others helping you, even better.

My one co-worker and I are thinking of taking our kids to Disneyland around the same time. But we're trying to be somewhat frugal about it too. A great idea we got from a friend was that instead of buying the glow sticks at the park, you buy a crapload of them at home for a buck and just tell the kids you got it there. Mine are young enough to believe that stuff. That alone is going to save me a ton of dollars!

So, my one co-worker and I are sharing tips, going on the internet to find deals and hints. Some things like looking up hotels near Disneyland will have to be done at a closer time. But there are so many things to look up now.

However, I think most of my plans will go out the window as it sounds like my husband wants to stay at the resort. It's going to be a while before we go...but I can't wait!

Celebrities

Ok, I love listening to celebrity gossip. But sometimes I even think it's too stupid.

For example, Jessica Simpson. I am so thankful I'm not her as she seems to have had it rough lately...and the press is eating it up. Granted, I'm not sure how high maintenance she is and maybe that's why this is all happening.

But how many days do we have to hear about Daisy...her dog that got mauled by a coyote? Yes, I get that it's sad that she has lost her much loved pet. Ummm...there really has to be more to report out there than to give me a full page about Daisy.

I guess everybody loves to hate Jessica. Even her acne treatment infomercials have been dumped. I hope it gets better for her soon. It's not looking too good for her.....

Numbers

Wow. There really is a number for everything. I love categorization of things!!! It makes me happy. So, when looking for things like a water filter, I can just type in it's code of ukf7003axx. When I want a new car...just type in the model number.
Works for me. It almost sounds like government talk! But like anything, numbers are only as useful to those that it makes sense to.

On a totally different tanget about numbers, the show Numbers will be coming on soon. I swear, I'm a total lover of that show!!! To me, it's just amazing what they can do with math. I must admit, at one point, I was veering to be a statistician. I thought the math was just fascinating. But no, I opted for other things.

Anyways, just a random post about numbers...such wonderful things....

Medical System

Recently, there's been a ton of debate down in the states about the medical system. Medicare supplement, insurance, privatization...etc. Comparisons even between the European and Canadian systems.

I hate that they say that the Canadian system is terrible and will murder thousands if not millions of citizens because they won't be served. Yes, I agree that our system must improve in some way. However, I'm truly thankful for the medical services that my family receives. I pay premiums and I may have to wait for some services...but for those that need services immediately, they get it. At least that is what my experience has been. Regardless, I can afford medical care in this country where I'm not sure if I could if I were in the states today. To me, it's terrible to think that I couldn't afford to bring my child in because they were sick. I'm glad I never have to make a choice of whether or not they'll have to see a doctor.

Hotels

Hotels, hotels. One of the most expensive parts of the trip. But I secretly love them. I never have to clean up, my bed is always made, I always have fresh towels and I always want to see how cheezy the art is that they have on the wall.

Anyways, I started to search for hotels because I got my weekly travel discount e-newsletter. I don't know why I sign up for these because I end up wanting to go only to know that I don't have the actual time, getting care for my kids can be more work, and to determine where I want to go first!!! The world is a big place....

So I searched hotels in daytona beach...but I'll make sure it's not spring break. Hotels in Portland...no tax. Hotels in Indonesia because I loved being there before, and it's the one place that I can afford 5 star hotels at rock bottom prices. Hotels in Perth. Want to go visit a friend in Aussie land. Oh, the list goes on.

But I'm just going to have to wait a bit longer for my long travelling days again....

First day of School

Well, today was the first day of my one kid going to Grade 1. It was a good day. She was excited to see friends, to see a school she loves and to learn. I love that! Having a kid excited to learn is half the battle. And as exciting as today was, I was actually somewhat annoyed at the US school system today.

I didn't realize until last week that President Obama was going to do a Presidential speech to all children in the US today. However, many parents were up in arms and upset to the 10th degree because they thought that the President would use the platform to forward his political agenda. Hmmmm. What President in history has done so? Isn't it usually a feel good message of doing well in school, the future is yours for the taking, we are Americans and therefore we need to educate ourselves, blah, blah, blah?

I couldn't believe that some folks that I knew were dead set against hearing the President. They wanted the school to pre-screen or not to show the speech at all.
Everybody is entitled to their opinion but I do not share that thought.

I did hear one mother say that the kids should listen to the speech and make up their own minds. I agree. And what did the kids focus on? They focussed on how motivating the speech was, how they think the President really spoke to them to do well for their country and for themselves. I highly doubt a President would be stupid enough to give out some government dogma during one of these events. It would hurt him too much.

But if we want to teach our children about politics and making an informed decision on who to vote for, what issues are important, etc., I think moments like these are great. I'd like to ask, for all those that said no to the President's speech, would it be ok to have religion televised to all students in public schools? Don't make me even go there....

Listening

As a parent, sometimes you talk to your children and you don't know if they're really listening. Especially when it comes to important messages. I know I must sound like a broken record, but there are some things that when I think it's a good opportunity, I'll just start talking about it with them. For example, the topic of strangers.

I don't want to freak the daylights out of them, but I think it's important to tell them what they need to do, how to interact with strangers, etc. You just never know these days.

So, imagine how happy I was when I found out that at least one of my kids listen to me. My dad had both of my kids this week. And he happened to take my youngest kid out to go to the local pharmacy to pick up up something quickly. She was ok with going as she's been there plenty of times and knows the staff there. However, this one day, there happened to be a pharmacist that my kid did not know. My dad and the pharmacist talked, got caught up and had some good laughs. Then she turned her attention to my kid. And this is how the conversation went:

Pharmacist: Hey, it's so great that you're here with Grandpa. How about a treat? You see all these chocolates and candies? Pick anything you want.

Kid: No thank you.

Pharmacist: Why not?

Kid: You're a stranger.

Pharmacist: That's a good answer, and that's good that you listen to your parents. But I'm your grandad's friend. Why don't you pick a treat?

Kid: No, thank you. Your still a stranger because you're not my momma's friend.

! NICE. I was so proud of my little girl and it just gave me a little boost to know that maybe I am doing something right as a mother.

Rants and Raves

Well, today will prove to be a bit of a rant and rave day. Sometimes, we need to get out all the crap stuff and also praise all the wonderful stuff.

Rant: To all the crappy drivers this morning that tailgated me and were more than close enough to smash into me. You all suck. I'm stopping my car to turn, but if there's a person crossing the road and I know I can hit her, I'll wait for the person to finish crossing. Don't be a fricken moron. Remember if you hit into me, you're in the wrong, not me.

Rave: I went out to a local congee joint for awewsome food. That always makes me feel good.

Rant: Some co-workers really need to learn when to gossip. Dudette, don't gossip in the middle of the hallway about me because you'll know I'll walk by. Murphy's law. And sure enough, that happened today...hmmm...you were blushing, guess you knew that I heard you?

Rave: The weather was actually quite perfect. Not too hot, not too cold. Better enjoy it because Fall and Winter are just around the corner.

Rant: Why can't people understand that co-workers don't have to be best friends. You might not like me, and I can totally understand that because I may not necessarily like you, but we need to work together. Let's just be professional and not get catty. I want to go home at the end of the day and forget your ugly attitude and face. But I will not treat you like crap while at work though I'd love to just kick you to the curb. Let's just say that I had to deal with some serious f#$@ers today. You all suck.

Rave: I'm just about done my cold. That's awesome. Maybe sleep will come to me now....

So, some good and bad and that's just the way it is. I'm thankful for a job but I really could do without some of the characters that can make my life a living hell at times. But that goes with the territory. And tomorrow is a new day. Hopefully no rants...just raves.

Regrets

I really try to live my life and make choices that I will not regret in the long run. Do I have some? Sure I do but I believe that they're small regrets and I can live with them. But regret is an ugly thing. So, I want to be able to forgive myself so that at the end of my life whenever that may be, I want to be able to die peacefully knowing that I didn't regret any action or inaction during my life.

For example, I have a co-worker (frick, everything is about co-workers today) that mentioned something about being regrettful about some choices she made recently. Too me, it was about a job she didn't take. And the regret has been eating her up and I can see that it's actually adding to some of her bitterness.

I told her that whatever decision she did make, she needs to let go. Regret will eat you up inside and will take you down the bitter road. Life just isn't pleasant and you start missing out on all the great things that are in your life. You miss out on all that life has to offer because you're still stewing over this one decision.

Forgive yourself and move on. Probably easier said than done. But there's nothing you can change about that decision now as it's over and your life has taken on a different trajectory based on those choices. But it doesn't mean that the choices that come to you will be bad. It might bring about better options that you didn't know existed. So live in the present rather than thinking about the past.

Unity

I find it very funny how some things unite us. Today, I talked to a co-worker that I hadn't seen in weeks as she was on holidays, then I was on holidays...and we basically kept missing each other.

Anyways, I asked her what she did on her holidays. She said a couple of things...and then she mentioned her sister. Me, being nosey as hell, decided to probe a little further. She had taken 3 weeks off as her sister had breast cancer. Her sister was staying with her while she recovered from a double masectomy. They were going to do further surgery as it looked like the cancer had spread to her lymph nodes. For goodness sake, the woman is only 38 and with 2 kids.

I tried to comfort her in letting her know that my husband had cancer and I understand the emotional drain. I hoped that she was taking care of herself while taking care of her sister. I know the fears she is encountering. Though there are differences in treatment, to me, cancer is cancer. A disease is a disease. Doesn't matter...it's draining and anxiety ridden for all those involved.

Now, I'm not particularly close to this co-worker, but having had this conversation, it gave me an opportunity to understand her as a person, to be more sympathetic to what she is going through at this time, and to offer support where needed. I know how important that support was to me when my husband was recovering...I hope that I can offer some of that to her and to others that need it.

Phone Calls

In such a busy time, busy place, busy life, we sometimes forget to just keep in touch. With e-mail, facebook, twitter, etc., it makes it a little easier. But nothing replaces the human voice or an actual phone call.

You never know what you're going to hear on the other end. Perhaps great news you didn't expect or maybe terrible news. Something suprising or just odd. And sometimes, it's a just a call to let the other person know you're thinking of them.

I've been thinking about a special friend in my life and glad I picked up the phone today. No, her news wasn't great, but she is sure one tough cookie. And her family is strong and supportive. If anything, it gave me an opportunity to let her know that I was thinking of her and the rest of her family. As well, it helped me in hearing her voice as I knew she was ok despite the not so great news. And I hope that when she heard my voice, it was actually a welcome call that maybe took her mind off of things even for a couple of minutes. But if anything, she knew that I cared.

Life is short folks. So, pick up the phone...you never know what a phone call can mean to someone.

Blogs

There at least a billion webpages. But some are just better than others. My husband introduced me Fail Blog and I swear, it's like crack for adults. Try not to laugh...I dare you.

http://failblog.org/

Education

I truly believe that learning is life long, never just a set amount of time. You learn when you can, and if you can afford to go to formal education, then do it.

I know that in previous years, I had gone into HR training. And at one point, I was going to get an Organizational development degree of some type. But I'm glad I didn't. Not because it wasn't interesting, in fact, it was awesomely interesting. I know that schools such as Gonzangonline.com provide this training. I know that this type of training will open a lot of doors for people to get into consulting or even management. Maybe even open more career paths.


But I couldn't see myself working in HR or trying to assist teams or do training. I liked the idea...but that's not good enough. Some were meant to be in HR stuff, not me. I think I'd choke a ton of people while in the job.

For now, I am quite content in my position and very happy I didn't go into HR. However, I can see myself needing a new challenge soon. Where that leads, I'm not sure. Maybe I just need the same job, but in a different department. Maybe I need a job that is more creative. Either way, I have choices...I hope I make some good ones for myself.

Benefits

I know that I'm very fortunate to have benefits at work...especially medical. Considering the amount of prescription medication we go through in a year, the benefits are huge. I can only imagine in the future, with 2 girls, who will most likely need glasses and braces how much the insurance will help me.

But like anything, if you're willing to pay more for things like an extended service plan, you could probably get more benefits. The question becomes, do I need these types of services? Some insurances that I have, I do go for it because I can see myself using it. But I'm not so sure about upping my medical plan with work.

However, further thought will go into it. Perhaps it will give me peace of mind.

Hips

For those that know my youngest kid, you'll know that she had hip dysplasia when she was young. The only reason why we found out about it was due to a routine check at the doctor's. He noticed that one leg had 3 folds of fat while the other only had 2. Because of this one little thing, he thought it would be best to have the kid x-rayed.

The next thing I knew, I was going to BC Children's Hospital with my youngest to get her leg checked out. Basically, her ball and socket in her hip was a bit to shallow. It was causing her leg to grow on a slant rather than straight. If we had let it go, she might have needed a hip replacement early in life. To prevent that, she wore a rhinocruiser for a couple of months. There were days that it was hell because that thing did not look comfortable. But kids are extremely resilient and she handled it really well.

Through the years, we've been going back and forth to the hospital to keep an eye on the growing leg. This time, when we went, I almost cried. When she went to get her x-ray, my kid didn't need to go into a special plastic cast to get x-rayed, nor did she lie down on the table being freaked out by some large machine. The technician got her a little stool, asked her to stand in a certain position, they put some masking tape on the kid...and she didn't make one peep. She knew what to do, she did it with a smile and happily went her way after she got her special sticker. I remember the first couple of times, it was just tears and screaming because she was so freaked out. I was just really proud of her that she just took this as part of her life.

When it was time to be debriefed, a visiting doctor came first. She looked at the x-rays, made some comments, did some leg tests and seemed quite happy. I think I was quite suprised when I saw the very first x-ray that was ever taken compared to the one that was just taken. Literally night and day. I couldn't believe how crooked her leg was growing.

Then the expert doctor came in. She said words I wanted to hear..."thanks for coming by, it was great knowing you, now have a great life." All was good with the kid's hip and leg. Cool.

But before leaving, I saw all the other parents in the ortho clinic. I saw myself in many of these parents...hearing news they didn't want to hear and what was to happen next. In the big picture, my kid was very lucky where she was fixed. For others, I know they'll be visiting the clinic way more often than us due to more serious issues. I wish I could take each one of them aside and say that they're in good hands, they're in one of the best hospitals for children and just live with your children to help them get through all of this.

We complain a lot about the medical system and I know that there are things that need to be fixed. But let's not forget all the great things that these doctors do because they love their job and they're damn good at it. Thank you to BC Children's Hospital and to my wonderful family doctor.

Equipment

There are a ton of fitness equipment out there these days. I'm happy with what I have...but I could do with a whole gym. =) But some of the equipment that is out there, well, I'm not so sure about.

Anyways, I was watching an infomercial because I could...and it was for some ab machine. But the thing is, you kneel on it, hold on tight and then swing your body from side to side. Hmmmm. I see neck pain. I see back pain. I just see a lot of pain.

I guess I'm an old fashioned girl. I like to see basic equipment to help us do basic exercises. It's hard enough to just get up and do something...so let's not make it so complicated.

Reviews

Everytime a new product comes out, I wonder how true the reviews are. And I'm especially talking about the weight loss supplement reviews. In the day of photoshop, airbrushing, actors, etc., it really is difficult to determine what is real and what is not these days.

For any product review (i.e. my lovely new Butler bag), I actually prefer to see a mixture of positive and negative reviews. Of course, I want to see the majority of the reviews to be positive. By having a mixture, it really gives me a sense of the pros and cons of the product. And it gives me an idea that they are real reviews rather than one that is written to make something look good.

Anything that I've read reviews on and then bought, I can honestly say that I've been happy. I took into account the negative reviews and was able to live with it. So thank you to all you honest people out there that make my life a little easier.

Recent Happenings

Ahhh...so long since my last blog. Well, things just got busy around here. Work is crazy, as always, but I love it. Kids are busy bodies and having to keep them busy. And the last 2 weeks have just been filled with activities. Wedding last Saturday, then almost every night onweard, I actually had plans. And I just came back from Birch Bay. Tiring but extremely fun.

As mentioned previously, the wedding was a Muslim wedding and the first that I've been to. The bride was stunning and I cried when I saw her walk down the aisle. The ceremony was short and sweet. It was very meaningful and the singing of this one hymn was hynotic and beautiful. The reception was immaculate, tons of entertainment, funny speeches and tons of food. But it was a little late for me. Dinner wasn't until 10:30 at night. By the time dancing started, it was 12:15 and I had to drive home. But it was wonderful to see a friend and colleague tie the knot and have an extremely memorable day.

I had a great time out at Birch Bay this weekend too. Some great friends and colleagues to hang out with. Beach time, shopping (way too much shopping), good food and good company. And probably what I love best is the quiet at night. It's a good reminder to just slow down. And with that quiet came deep sleep which is also wonderful. Oh, it has been so long since I've gone into such a deep sleep to dream. That is a real luxury.

So one week to go before I get an actual week of vacation. I can't wait. Just doing the staycation thing with the family. Lots to see and do. And just like that, summer is over. It's going much to fast.....

Cars

My family and I recently watched Race to Witch Mountain (the one with the Rock in it). It was a ton of fun. The Rock was funny, the kids were believable and the pacing was great. And as with almost every Disney movie, I actually cried.

In one part of the movie, the main character was talking about a car he wanted. And it did not come cheap. But I can understand the want of a beautiful car, even as a woman.

I know my husband would love a Ferrari. But the problem is, you'd have to also be able to afford Ferrari parts. Never just about buying the car...but how to maintain it. And since my husband hasn't won the lotto yet, guess he's not getting a Ferrari.

Cleanse

Someone told me about some product to do a cleanse. I had some recent bloating issues and thought it might help. They claim they are considered natural weight loss supplements.

I took it and it seemed to help with the bloating which is fantastic. But after a day and half, I was done. Oh, I'm sure the product is fine. It's just my taste buds!! There was a vial of liquid that you have to put 4 drops of into water. I figured, it can't be that bad...especially since everybody else told me it was fine.

My taste buds were not happy. And let's just say I made some not so nice sounds as I was trying to gag it back up. Blech. So, I'll continue to bloat and try to eat less salt. WAY less easier.

Long Weekend

Ahhh...long weekends. An extra day that I don't have to work. I can deal with that. Any day that I don't have to work is a good thing.

Friday night was a night at my parent's place for dinner with the girls. And I must admit, it was a non-argumentative night over a ton of KFC. I had a great time catching up with my parents and it was nice that my stepmom didn't have to cook that night. So it was totally relaxing.

Saturday was a full day...at least for me. 8am...yes, 8am dentist visits for all of us. Only to find out I have 2 cavities. I swear, I brush and floss. After that, off to volunteer at the Powell Street Festival. Oh, it was so wonderful to see my taiko buddies!!! Catching up with all of them was so fantastic. Makes me miss taiko big time. And volunteering was so easy!! The time went by so fast. I was so sad to leave...however, there was a cancellation at the dentist's office...so I went right after volunteering to get my cavities fixed. OMG. 2.5 hours at the office. They had to take pictures of some other issue with some other tooth. But the good part is that it's done. I love my dentist but I hate going to see her.

Sunday was a bit of clean up and then off to a barbeque at my husband's co-worker's place. Ummm...central A/C. Yep. It was awesome. And they had this amazing back yard that had the full on bbq, fireplace, chairs, etc., in the backyard. Like a magazine spread. It was just fun to eat and chat with some good company, and the A/c totally rocked.

Monday totally ruled. Cleaned up what we needed to clean. Then the rest of the day was a free for all. Everyone puttered in their own way. It was so great! The weather was cooler too which made the day extra enjoyable. I love puttering.

So, I can't say it was a totally eventful weekend. But it was a nice pace and I do feel somewhat rested. That to me is awesome.

Upset Stomachs....

There is something going on in Vancouver...or at least, something going on with the restaurants near where I work!! Yesterday and today, I got an upset stomach from what I ate. And it's not clearing quickly. I must have had 4 other co-workers this week who went out for lunch around the work area only to not show up to work due to upset stomachs or many, many trips to the washroom.

Perhaps it's just so warm and people aren't taking care of how they store or handle the food. Oh, I beg you to please do so....

My iron stomach is no more....

Weddings

Well, it's been a while since I've gone to a wedding...unlike the 27 I had in a 3 year span. I'm really looking forward to this one as it's my first Muslim wedding. Doubt I'll be seeing this type of awesomeness at the wedding! (Thanks Miss A. for the link!)

Kids

There were times that I thought maybe my kids were a bit too close. But as the years go by, I'm glad that I had them 2 years apart. They are actually very, very close. And I hope that their relationship will continue to grow in the future years.

Last night was a real glimpse of how close they were. Saturdays are turning into marathon reading night...or at least has been for my oldest kid. On weekdays, both of the girls get to read in bed for a little bit before turning out the lights to go to bed. I don't let them read too long as the next day is a school day.
I know my eldst love readings! And I want to continue to nurture that love of reading. So, on Saturdays, I've been allowing her to read until she falls asleep. And usually, it's only about a half hour later than when she would normally fall asleep so I don't feel guilty at all.

Because my youngest has also found the love of reading, my husband and I thought it would be fun for her to start her marathon Saturday reading. She was so excited!

But after about 10 minutes, I heard her starting to cry. Then she came down the stairs. I thought she was scared because she heard a noise. Nope. That wasn't it. Maybe she didn't like her books. Nope, that's not it either.

"Hey kiddo, why are you crying, are you ok?"

"I'm lonely."

"You're lonely? But you have people in the house that love you. You should be having fun reading right now?"

"But I'm lonely." Crocodile tears continue....

And my husband made a good point. As a kid, she's never had a life without her older sister. She's done everything with her. And soon as I suggested that she have a "sleep over" in her sister's room, all was good. They giggled, they played, they read. Within minutes, they were asleep side by side, peaceful, content. Bonds like that are amazing...how lucky that they have each other.

Quotes

Every once in a while, my union sends out a newsletter or a reminder for us to go through their preferred insurance company for insurance. So, to support my union, I thought I would put in for a home insurance quote...just to see if there was a difference. If the difference was good in terms of cost, then perhaps I'd switch.

Hmmm...to support or not support. I think this time I'll say no. Customer service wasn't great and it seemed quite a bit higher for the same insurance that I have! So, why would I switch?

I guess I found it odd that our union also had a preferred insurance company. Ummmm...please don't tell me my funds are going towards that.

Anyways, it's always worth shopping around to make sure that you get the insurance you want and within a price range that you're willing to pay.

Cruise

Ahhh...cruises. Considering the travelling I've done, I've never been on a cruise. However, all those that I know that have been on them have had a fantastic time! Now with a family, it's something to look into.

My ideal cruise vacation would be somewhere warm. Any of the Caribbean cruises would be fantastic! I'm all about blue water, tropical air and just something very different from home.

But I think with kids, it just becomes a different kind of trip. Having on board care for kids is fantastic. I could drop off the kids, they'd have a great time and I could actually enjoy some of the ammenities on my own or with my hubby. Yeah. Can't see taking the kids to the casino. But maybe even just excersing. Gotta work off that food somehow! Or maybe, just laying on the deck reading a book. OMG. That would be awesome!!

One of my friends went on a Carnival ship, she tried a different activity every day (except she exercised everyday) and yet she was not able to explore the whole ship. There was that much to do. How cool is that?!

Oh, just having everything taken care of is just such a wonderful thought. My meals are there, my entertainment is taken care of, child care if needed, excursion if I want...and little towel animals. Really, what more do I need for an awesome vacation?!

Tears and Messages

Most of the time, when my kids cry, I can deal with it. But sometimes, it really is painful to see. Or as my youngest would say, "you're breaking my heart!"

Last night, I opened my bedroom door at about 9:30 to go the computer room. I just about had a heart attack as my eldest daughter was standing outside the door. I guess I didn't hear her knock.

But when I looked at her closer, I noticed that she had those big, puppy dog eyes...and there were tears just brimming...ready to flow. Oh, I was just so heartbroken to see her so sad and not understanding why.

I asked her what was wrong and why she was crying. I told her that her being sad made momma very sad. She said that she missed me and she wanted me to message her in the morning. Ok, I get the fact that she missed me...but message her? Of course I had to find out what the hell she was talking about.

"Honey, you want me to message you?"

"Yes momma."

"Like e-mail or Instant Messenger?"

"Instant Messenger please."

Talk about a different generation.

I did end up writing a couple of small messages to her for her to see in the morning. But what was fun was that she wrote back.

And so, I guess a new tradition starts with this 1 kid. Hopefully that will just prevent big puppy dog eyes and tears in the near future.

Bonus Points

Ahhh...my husband so gets bonus points tonight. With a meeting that went on too long, I was really worried that I wouldn't get to my one kid's daycare. They close at 6. I was still in Vancouver at 5...and in the middle of rush hour, I wasn't so sure I'd make it in time. And if I didn't, I get charged a buck a minute after closing time (yikes!) and I'm worried my kid will think I forgot about her. Highly unlikely, but she doesn't know that.

So, I called my husband at work. No worries, he could go pick her up. He called me on the way there and if I wanted McDonald's. Unhealthy as it gets. But I was hungry, I didn't want to make dinner as it would be much too late before we ate and I was tired.

A meal I shouldn't have eaten, but I loved every minute of it. And not having had to cook dinner tonight was an absolute blessing! Thanks T!

Meetings

The big wigs came out today to my office for a meeting with the leadership team which I'm a part of. I have to tell you, this kind of stuff drives me nuts. It wreaks havoc on my day and creates a lot of work for a lot of nothing. Perhaps they get value out of it, but I sure as hell don't. And I even got to stay an additional 2 hours at the office today to sit at this meeting.

I'm sure they mean well. I'm sure they want to know us. But honestly, let me do my own work in my little cubicle. Leave me alone and I assure you whatever it is that you need will get done when it's supposed to.

Postcrossing

Recently, I joined this website called Postcrossing. Basically, you send postcards out to random people who have also joined the site. And in good time, other random people will send you a postcard from their country. I liked the concept because I really liked the idea of penpals...however, I just don't have the time to really keep up with that activity. All except for 1 good pen pal at this time. I thought that postcrossing would be a good alternative...send things around the world, eventually learn about others but there was no need to return mail to that same person. It's also a cheap hobbyt that I can afford!!

I've received about 7 postcards at this time. I've received cards from different countries and from some cities I've never even heard of. How awesome! I've been fortunate enough to receive postcards that actually say more than hi. Many folks tell me about their life, what their doing, interesting facts about their country. Some have been so amazing as to make their own cards to send.

The neat part about the website itself is that I can find out a little about the people that are on there. LOL! There was one person I wrote to that was actually a 6 month old child. I had to re-read the person's info to make sure I had it right. But the "kid" had said that his mom is helping him read the postcards. How cool...the mom is just reading and telling the kid about people around the world.

It's also been neat because I can show my girls pictures of other countries and help them learn about the world too. If anything, it's just a small reminder to me that there really are some great people out there. If you're interested, it's www.postcrossing.com...and if you're really adventuresome, there's also a bookswap version of this: www.bookcrossing.com

Anyways, I have to share this commercial with you. Leave it to the Japanese to come up with a great marketing concept. But it has to do with mailing stuff. Call me sappy, but I cried my little eyes out when the grandfather sends a package to his grand daughter. Man, if these kit kat mailing packages ever come here, you know I'll be sending it to my postcrossing friends.

Sales People

We recently had a retired co-worker come back to the office to visit. How lovely! I always like seeing retired folks enjoying their after work life. They always look 10 years younger, travelling or doing all the things that they love so much. Fantastic. They've worked for that life...glad they're getting to enjoy it.

So, as I caught up with this retired co-worker, I asked him what he was up to. Still writing his poems? Still gardening? Oh yes, he was doing a lot of things he loved. But he also mentioned that he was helping his son right now with selling health products. Whoa. Alarm bells were ringing in my head!!!

He mentioned that he felt so good and healthy on the inside due to the products, his hair was now growing back. He asked if my husband was losing his hair and if he wanted to take a look at the products he uses. Hmmm...no, not really. He then asked me if I needed fat burner supplements. Hmmm...didn't know if I should have been offended or happy that he was offering to help. Then, he asked if I had friends that were losing their hair so he could go talk to them and try to provide them with great products. Ummm...so you didn't really want to talk to me or your co-workers and you just want to sell them stuff.

Ok, I'm not dissing the products. But I didn't like the sales tactic. You come to the office to peddle your stuff during people's work time? I don't know, that doesn't seem right. Apparently he asked employees on all 3 floors if they were losing their hair because he wanted to offer people products to help them with that. I think that's a bit agressive.

So, he came into the office again the next day to drop off products. I just waved and walked by. I'm happy for the guy, but if I want any of that stuff, I'll call you.

Purse

Google is insane sometimes. (I have yet to like Bing) I put in a search word for PH level...but I guess I might have just typed in PH. I got phenphedrine reviews. Huh. Good on them for getting ranked so high. But I digress on my story for today.

I was talking to a co-worker who is also a mom about this purse I've been obsessing about. I had actually stopped obsessing already about it but we started to talk about purses. Of course I had to show her the website for this purse. It was awesome. Someone who shared my passion for this damn thing and drooled. She was ready to slap down that credit card, no questions asked. She was already talking about getting the free delivery to her box in the states. My concern was the duty. Dang. In 2 seconds flat, she said that she would take her whole family down. Because they're down for a couple of hours and there are 4 of them, they can all claim $50. Should cover the cost of both purses.

I get mocked at the office all the time over products I like, so it was REALLY nice to find a mom that drools over the same products. Oooo...closer than I think.

Commercials

I was always one of those folks that went to the World's Greatest Commercial events (and I've gone way more than once). I love advertising...when it's good.

I thought this one was a cute one and thought I would share!

Re-inspired

Well, I took the kids out for a bike ride tonight. Strapped on their helmets, elbow and knee pads and let them ride their little hearts content. I told my older daughter that it was time to take off her training wheels as she needs to learn how to ride on 2 wheels. She was excited but freaked at the same time. I just held her bike and ran with her and then would let go for a short period of time. She had brief moments of actually riding. AWESOME. I know if I kept her training wheels on, she would continue to use them until she was 19...or until some kid mocked her.

My husband came out at some point and helped with the girls too. He also brought out my bike, did what he had to do to get the air into the tires, adjusted the seat...and then he took it for a ride. By the time he came back, I asked for my bike back and went for a ride myself around the block. I was so re-inspired to ride my bike once again. Oh, I had forgotten how great it was to ride on a beautiful night such as this. There was a nice breeze, quiet in the neighbourhood, and just the feeling of moving quickly. Though the one thing that I remembered quickly was the seat...even with my big butt, it's not enough cushioning. But that's just a small inconvenience for a wonderful experience. Can't wait to go again!

Reviews

I was recently trying to find a review on this purse I've been eyeing. I typed into google with the key word review. Duh. Maybe I should have been more specific. But if you just write in review, you'll get a review on everything possible. There are diet pill reviews, electronic reviews, book reviews...you get the idea. I was surprised to see that Niagara Fall reviews was the first thing that came up. Huh. Didn't think that would be the first thing.

I also find it amazing that so many people have the time to review so many things. Gosh. Pay me a full time wage to review something. Believe me, I won't hide my feelings on what I think of a product. I'll endorse it like silly (hello, tofu shirataki noodles!) or I'll just give a terrible review because I think the product is crap.

Anyways, I found a gazillion sites on what I was looking for. Confused, yeah, slightly. But I guess there a billion people out there that aren't shy to share their opinions either.

Clothing

I think I only choose certain sports because I don't have to embarrass myself in certain clothing. The only sports that I am willing to embarrass myself in clothing are surfing, scuba diving and wind surfing. Don't get me started on the time I got stuck in a wet suit....

Anyways, one of my scrapbooks fell open the other day. It happened to be my trip to Australia. It was a great trip! One of the highlights was doing a farm stay. It was in a part of Australia that has red sand...basically the only place in the world. The termite hills were as tall as me. The bugs were insanely huge. But half of the charm of staying out there was that everyday, we could just go take horses out for a run or tour. However, I was always one of those folks that never really wore the right stuff. I would go out in shorts or jeans...never in breeches. That would make me look like a real sausage due to my girth...but some other folks looked amazing in them.

Anyways, if I were to ride out here, I think they'd ask me to wear a pair...I'm sorry, I'm just not able to. I'm afraid that I might have the same incident as my wet suit. That just isn't pretty.

So, just a random thought tonight as I attempt to clean up the house...well, maybe it's procrastination....

Canada Day

Oh Canada...our home and naked land.

Hee hee. Yes, you read that right. My youngest kid was having a difficult time with the first line of the song. She keeps saying naked when it should be native. And apparently, she just thinks this song is the best. We sing this in the car...all the time going home. I eventually had to tell her I needed a break from the song. I'm Canadian, but I don't need to sing it 10 times a day.

This year, we had a mellow day. My eldest daughter's daycare was actually open! So I already paid for the day without thinking about it...thought she might as well go. She ended up going to the Waterslides. Well, the other kid should have some fun too! So she had a chance to go to the beach with me early in the morning. It was really great...found tons of parking, about 5 people on the beach, she found some shells, rode her little trike, waded in water. You get the idea. A fun filled morning at the beach. She then got her favourite lunch, played in the sprinkler, went and got a slurpee with dad...and then just played with us. Fun day for her.

My husband got to sleep in, play video games and chilled. I chilled too in between some chores. My favourite moment was being out on the deck where it was shady, sitting down and putting up my feet while reading a book. Oh, with the breeze and relative quiet while reading was just awesome today.

So, a pretty laid back day. Did I miss celebrating Canada's birthday? Yeah, a bit. But I already think Canada rocks everyday.

Book

I've recently picked up a book that I had put down a couple of months ago. It's called The Realm of Hungry Ghosts. I'm not sure it would be a book that I would have picked up just off the shelf...but I was invited to his book party and I was quite intrigued by him, what he had to say, and his demeanor. He battled his own addiction (buying) and he really saw himself no different from those in the downtown eastside. Basically, he was a human being that was addicted.


This doctor's book discusses his work in the Vancouver downtown Eastside, what he sees, his thoughts, how he helps, and his opinions on current assistance from the government. It's a pretty tough book to get through and maybe that's why I put it down. Though drug rehab is an answer for some, it's not a solid answer for all those in the Downtown Eastside. I found his opinions on safe injection sites and decriminalization of drugs refreshing and interesting. Are they the right answers? I'm not sure. But if anything, the book talks about his patients, what they're going through, their thoughts, their histories that makes the book extra compelling.

I hope that I am never going to be a parent that has to deal with kids that meddle into drugs. That's why I think it's never too young to get drug information and discuss the information with your kids. It's my job to protect them...this is just one of many ways.

Electronic Newsletters

I sign up for electronic newsletters...all the time. I eventually unsubscribe. But I sign up because there's an opportunity to win a contest, to get information that seems interesting...or to get good deals. Unfortunately, it can suck looking at the information sometimes.

It's not actually bad, but more like what I can't get. Believe me when I say that I can spend money well and quickly. But I also know how slowly the money comes in. I hate not being able to grab good deals though. Lately, there have been a lot of travel deals for things like Orlando vacations or California flights. Umm...would love to go but can't right now. Or deals for this awesome purse I've been eyeing. Ouch...$200 US and that doesn't include the duty fees yet? Oooo...or how about some new gadget? Not right now... can't justify it. I'm doing the slow and steady saving right now because I just have to. You just never know when something might happen where you will need your money to cover it.


So, I probably should unsubscribe to more stuff so I don't see any of the deals. It's like torture to a woman to see a sale and be able to access it!

Unemployment

We all hear the numbers of those that are unemployed. I see it everyday outside my office. Yes, I agree that there will always be those that are unemployed. But it's been a while since I've seen so many faces outside my office each morning.

Though it's difficult to be unemployed,(believe me I've been there and didn't like it one bit) I also saw this as an opportunity to make some good career choices. I wanted to know what I was good at and what I really wanted to do. If I were to go back to school, what would I go back as? But if I did, I'd want to make sure it was the right choice as I didn't want to spend a ton of time and money only to find that I hated it.

That's why I always tell those that are unemployed to use the opportunity to do some career counselling. For Canadians, your tax dollars pays for a service like this, so why not use the service? Find out if you should go into a health care career, or something artsy...maybe you'll find out a type of job that you didn't know you'd be good at and liked! That's always nice. And really, the potential to find a job that you'll like is a pretty awesome idea.

But take the time to do the research about yourself and your future career. I hate seeing familiar faces back in the unemployment line.

Vindicated

There is this one woman at work, who is not even in my department, that I have to work with from time to time. I'm going to try to be nice here...but she really is not the brightest star in the sky. She doesn't listen even though you tell her a gazillion times. She can't get things straight. She takes credit for a whole group's work. She takes forever to do anything. She doesn't get what goes on. And she's cheap as hell!!!

Being cheap is not a bad thing...but when you're at a fundraiser, if you spend money, even if it's a little more, you know it's going to a good cause. She spent a whole 75 CENTS for a brownie. But then, when the half price was going on, she came back downstairs, bought some more brownies, but then complained that she had to pay the full price of 75 cents for her first brownie. Hell if I was going to give a refund.

But I digress on why I think she's extremely difficult to work with. I have this one project (unfortunately, I have other projects with her) that I have to work with her on. I always provide my information and any changes that go along with it. However, she refuses to share her information even though, the process and our roles ensure I get the information. She can't give specifics on anything because she doesn't know or she doesn't want to share. So, I called the lead to ask what the actual process was. I wasn't tattling...but I thought maybe I was the one that was wrong. Maybe I didn't truly understand the process.

But when I talked to her, she actually said that was going to call me as the woman that I'm referring to actually tattled on me saying that I was doing everything wrong. Interesting timing. So I explained my frustrations and asked questions to clarify my role.

The best part was when the lead said that I was doing everything right. I'm not wanting to gloat but I just feel vindicated. All that frustration of working with this woman who is a few bricks short of a full load went away. Ok, it wasn't me.

The lead even said that it's unfortunate that this woman doesn't understand because the project does deal with the safety of employees...so I, as well as this woman who is about as sharp as a marble have to get it right. The lead will be calling the boss of this woman who is a few fries short of a happy meal to discuss the matter. I expect that I'll be receiving my information shortly.

Another Reason

Yep. I just wrote about why I wouldn't be moving anytime soon. Well, after hearing what it would cost my friend, there's definitely no reason to move at this time.

Of course, my friend was in San Francisco. He called a number of different moving companies San Francisco to get the best deal possible. But as a Canadian, you're always converting money which isn't the smartest thing to do. When you're in that country, only think in that currency or you'll never sleep. And of course, his move is going to cost him way more than he is expecting.

But I've given some thought to perhaps moving to a cheaper province. The idea that I could possibly sell my house here, move to a cheaper city, get a bigger house and acreage and STILL have money left over for everything else is a real draw. I did give my parent some indication that I was thinking about it. But I did preface it with, "I'm not going to even think that hard about it until you both are dead." They thought it was funny. And if you're offended, it was one of those "you had to be there" moments. I know if I did move now, it would kill my parents.

So until my parents pass away, which is hopefully far into the future, I won't be thinking about moving too much. Or at least, not until I see the next housing complex ad in my area.

Browsing

I was on Facebook today and I happened to see some ad on some new houses in my area. I rarely click on the ads, but this one seemed interesting as it is only about 5 minutes from my current residence. I LOVED the downstairs floorplan. But I'm not sure how I'm going to eeek out $35,000 to finish it right now. But having a plan is the start. From there, my husband and I can build it slowly. It won't cost as much considering we'll be doing it ourselves.

But soon as I browse one house ad, I tend to other ones too. I saw one for Outer Banks foreclosures. Sweet waterfront properties and cheap. There was even one that was right on the beach...and they had a stable for the horses...so you could ride the horses on the beach on any given day. Wow. What a luxury. Seems like a movie if you ask me.

But back to reality. I'm not looking to move, at least not yet. I hate the process and honestly, I'm a pack rat. I'm not sure where I could find that many boxes if I needed to move.

Perfection

It doesn't exist. So, I don't know what it is about moms and their obsessions to get it perfect. And no Mrs. C.M., I'm not talking about you (read your blog...hee hee).

But honestly, we moms are amazing as is. We carry and nurture our child as they are growing within us. We nurture them for 9 months or some weird number of weeks. We give birth to these beings and protect them every step of the way. We try to make sure we teach you properly, to get you in the right classes, to help you grow into a contributing member of society.

All the while, we make sure that there is food in the house, cook everyday, clean, laundry, work, ensure all the special occassions are taken care of, everybody's needs are taken care of, and if we have time, try to take care of ourselves. I'm sure moms around could add tons more stuff to this list of everyday things that they do. But that's the thing. We do a TON in a day and yet we get mad at ourselves for not being able to do more and comparing ourselves to what we think is a perfect mom.

It really doesn't exist. So stop beating yourselves up mom. If your house is messy, like mine, then take it in stride. Nobody likes their house dirty...but you know what? Everybody is healthy, the major things are taken care of and the mess will still be there tomorrow. I promise.

Your family already thinks your close to perfection...shouldn't that be good enough?

Beat Boxing

I love people who can do the whole beat boxing thing. How fun is that?! At least they sound and look cool doing it. I sometimes air drum, but taiko style. Lame, I know. But I love my drumming...but you look like a crazy person that's ready to beat on someone if they don't know what you're doing.

I share a recent beat boxing video that I was quite impressed with:

Website

Ok, this is seriously one of my new favourite photos. Everytime I look at these photos, I think of some of the BAD family ones I have. But I would never upload them!!!

Oh, these poor souls who will now be forever on this website. I dare you not to laugh. And honestly, the further in you go, the funnier the photos.

http://awkwardfamilyphotos.com/

Bridge

On Sunday, I got a chance to walk over the new Golden Ears Bridge. If I understand correctly, this could cut 15-20 minutes of my commute time when heading over to Pitt Meadows. Not bad at all. Should be worth the toll.

I must admit that I wasn't really wanting to go. But my husband made a good point. It's been a very long time since anything large project like this has been completed and it should be worth celebrating. True, true.

Let's just say that I'm thankful that I brought the double stroller. Yes, I'm sure people mocked us for having "older" kids in one. But considering the walk, the heat and the actual distance, I couldn't care what people thought. While they had their children crying and screaming, mine were under their little stroller shade, eating snacks and enjoying the scenery.

And I must admit, it was quite cool. The cameras that capture your license plate/trasponder remind me so much of Singapore. The lanes were wide unlike the Lions Gate. And it's like a mini Alex Fraser. Cool.

After bridge visiting, it was off to the in-laws for a bbq to celebrate father's day early with 3 fathers and to also celebrate 2 birthdays. Yep. June is a busy month. Good food, good fun. Went by too quickly, and just like that, Monday is here.....

Praise the Lord

I recently bought tickets to my favourite Christian Pop singer...Michael W. Smith. I'm going with one of my kid's daycare providers. I swear I know about 95% of this guy's music and I'm not shy about it. Yeah, my husband can attest to this.

But everytime I tell my co-workers, there's a mixture of laughter, comments on me being a goof, and those cheering me on. That's because I'm not religious. What I mean is, I don't pray to a god of any sort. People find it odd that I would go to a Christian Pop concert when I don't believe in "the" big guy.

And sure enough, someone questioned me on this. I don't know if this was pure curiousity or if they were miffed that a non-believer would go to something like this.

I explained a couple of things to this person. First of all, music transcends all cultures. Like food, music is a constant and present in every culture around the world. And if it sounds good, then why shouldn't I listen to it?

Secondly, just because I don't believe in the big guy himself (and I have no issues with others believing in him), it doesn't mean that I don't believe that there is something greater out there than what I know. I'm merely human and there are times that I think that there must be something bigger. But what that is, or who that is...I'm not sure. But because I don't believe in the guy...that precludes me from going to a concert?

Thirdly, I try to live a good and honest life. That means no stealing, treating people with respect, loving my family, etc. You get the drift. All religions in some form or fashion ask for these types of things. Does this make me any less worthy to go see a pop star?

And the words in these songs can be understood in so many ways. For example, one of my favourite songs is Never Been Unloved. The word god is never mentioned. It's basically about a person who has never felt unloved because he's always been surrounded by love since the day he was born. You can see that as having a strong family, strong community...just so much love around him. How can this be bad? So maybe I see the words differently....

Perhaps what people have an issue is that I don't have faith. But that's not entirely true. Faith is defined a number of ways...mainly having confidence and trust in a person or thing without proof. I have faith in my family, faith that my friends are there for me, faith that if you work hard, you will be recognized, faith that mankind can be good and that faith comes in many forms. And how is faith in other things any less important than having faith in a deity?

I don't think person liked my answer, but I didn't really care. I don't question their faith because it's theirs. And I don't get pissed with them because they go to certain pop concerts. So, I will merrily go to my Christian Pop concert in July and not apologize for one moment.

Oh yeah Miss N, you know what I'm doing...pounding my chest with my one fist and waving it...I'll be thinking of you when he sings Friends that night.

Pills

I must be up at odd hours of the day because I tend to see a ton of infomercials. It's as if I have the 24 hour channel for it. But I've noticed a trend (how lame am I to notice a trend in informercials...). The trend is no longer about any type of diet pill but more on the internal flush pills. I honestly don't know the difference, but I assume that they do similar things. But maybe the flush one really just cleanses the inside of you and the diet one helps you feel full?

I probably wouldn't be so damn fat if junk food didn't taste so good. I've always been a proponent of having a junk tax because if they slap on a tax and it makes a dent in my budget, I won't buy it...no matter how good it tastes. My girlfriend's sister is actually in law school and looking at this right now. If I understand correctly, they are actually hoping to slap this tax on by this fall.

I wonder if my thinking will be the same for many others where they will buy less junk food when that tax comes. Until then, I wait for the next trend in infomercials.

Music

When I was younger, one of the highlights of my weekend was to head downtown...specifically to Ward music to get new sheet music. Ahhh...nothing like paying $4.95 for a song you really wanted to play on piano.

Of course, when you're a teen and spend endless time at a music store, they think you're stealing stuff. So I basically had to know what I was wanting before I stepped into the store. But being able to take new music home was so awesome!

Of course, fast forward about 20 years and everything of course is on the internet...including piano sheet music. I love being able to browse for hours and no one is getting upset with me. I love it when you go to the sites where you can hear someone playing the actual music. I remember being disappointed a number of times when I would get home and the music sheet was awful because the piano part was tottally lame.

And I love that I can just look and get an idea if I'll be able to play it. If not, next sheet of music to look at. And the beauty of doing it this way is that no one can get mad at me for making creases on the paper.

I'm thinking a little Ginny Owens sheet music for me.....

Work

Twice a year, I proctor exams. It sounds like I'm a proctologist, but believe me, I'm not. I just need to set exams up, monitor people, and ensure that the collection of everything is done by the code.

But to me, the people are more interesting. The people that take these exams basically want to be financial folks. Some standard that I really don't care about. But basically, you get it, and you can invest people or company's money.

Some folks look like they belong. And some, well, just look like they couldn't give a damn. If I had to pay $600 for an exam, I'd give it some care and thought.

And what's more interesting to me is people's superstitions when they go in or habitual things that they bring. Some brought lucky pennies, some made sure the stickers that their kids gave them were on their calculators, others preferred specific sharpeners, specific hair bands, and my favourite, someone with their specific jeans that they wore last year that had fake candies all over them. Hey, harmless stuff and it gives you an extra boost of confidence, why not?

Of course, others had rituals that I couldn't care for while writing the exam. I swear, this one guy would pick his nose every 5 minutes. I specifically watched the clock because I thought it was a fluke at first. Nope. That was his nervous ritual. Another guy, I thought was cheating, but he kept rubbing this rock or hunk of kleenex every 5 seconds. It was like a nervous twitch. It just kept catching my eyes, so it was actually bothering me.

But this time around, no cheaters. And that's good. It makes for much too much paperwork.