Calendars are pretty darn awesome. Plan out your day, your life, your activities, etc.
Compared to other people, my life is pretty boring and my calendar is nothing like theirs. But yet, somehow, my calendar still is "busy." Yes, I realize it's a first world problem, but wow, I'd really like to build in a couple of days of rest.
December was booked well in advance. I already have things booked for February, May and November. Yes, stick in June and some other months and really, not much is left after school, lessons, plays, etc.
I'm not complaining, well, maybe a little. Just would like some sleep, rest and time to myself!
Monday, December 16, 2013
Thursday, November 14, 2013
Vacation
My little family unit went on a quick jaunt to California to get some warm weather, sun, and fun.
It's been a tough summer and it was time for the family to just get together and worry about where to eat, or what activity to do next...or what to buy. It was nice to not cook, do chores and just have fun.
And all things considered, even though it was a tough summer, our family faired well. We didn't waver in our support of each other.
Seeing Mickey, getting some scream therapy in from all the rides, seeing some friends, and enjoying activities with the family is exactly what we needed as a family to heal.
Until the next vacation....
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Earphones
I love all my Apple doodads. Like, all of them. They make my life easier which in turn, makes me happy.
When the first iPhone 5 came out though and they had the new earphones, I made fun of Apple. So you and every company out there has done it wrong for eons so you're changing the earphones.
Well, I've used them now for a while and I will take every bad thing I said about them back. They are AWESOME. Things do sound better and richer.
I'm sorry for ever doubting you Apple. I bow to you.
When the first iPhone 5 came out though and they had the new earphones, I made fun of Apple. So you and every company out there has done it wrong for eons so you're changing the earphones.
Well, I've used them now for a while and I will take every bad thing I said about them back. They are AWESOME. Things do sound better and richer.
I'm sorry for ever doubting you Apple. I bow to you.
Wednesday, October 30, 2013
Traffic Nightmare
It was a traffic nightmare commuting home after a truck hit an overpass. I thought I was ahead of the game as I heard about it. I felt even more fortunate as I was getting a ride home.
But OMG. Every single alternate route that I could have taken was blocked or had traffic issues. Even other accidents. It always surprises me when this type of traffic chaos happens...on a sunny day.
The traffic was so bad that I was late picking up the kids. Thank goodness this is the first time. But of course it was the one night that the daycare worker had to go somewhere by a certain time.
It's a new day and hopefully a day full of traffic awesomeness. One can only hope!
But OMG. Every single alternate route that I could have taken was blocked or had traffic issues. Even other accidents. It always surprises me when this type of traffic chaos happens...on a sunny day.
The traffic was so bad that I was late picking up the kids. Thank goodness this is the first time. But of course it was the one night that the daycare worker had to go somewhere by a certain time.
It's a new day and hopefully a day full of traffic awesomeness. One can only hope!
Sunday, October 20, 2013
Teachers
I'm so thankful that my kids got teachers they love this year. Has made a real difference for the whole family.
At one point, my oldest kid got a teacher that did not mesh with her. I didn't think she was a bad teacher, just personally, was not a good match with my kid. And it doesn't matter, there are people we just will not get along with, but you need to figure out how to work with them and deal with them.
I had a lot of conversations with my one kid about this. It's life. She just had to make it through the year the best that she could, learn what she could and deal with the teacher. Considering how much she loathed the teacher, her grades were actually very good. But it really did not make for a happy school year.
Fast forward to this year, that same kid has no issues doing her homework, talks about what she's learning, is happy with her class and enjoying school. All because of a different teacher. Sure makes life around here a lot easier. But she's learned some good lessons about life and people from last year. She isn't taking this awesome teacher for granted.
As for my other kid, she was able to get a teacher she's had before. Actually, both of my kids have now had her twice and I'm just thrilled. This teacher really brings out the best in kids and I'm happy to see that she's enjoying school too.
So thankful for a happy school year!
At one point, my oldest kid got a teacher that did not mesh with her. I didn't think she was a bad teacher, just personally, was not a good match with my kid. And it doesn't matter, there are people we just will not get along with, but you need to figure out how to work with them and deal with them.
I had a lot of conversations with my one kid about this. It's life. She just had to make it through the year the best that she could, learn what she could and deal with the teacher. Considering how much she loathed the teacher, her grades were actually very good. But it really did not make for a happy school year.
Fast forward to this year, that same kid has no issues doing her homework, talks about what she's learning, is happy with her class and enjoying school. All because of a different teacher. Sure makes life around here a lot easier. But she's learned some good lessons about life and people from last year. She isn't taking this awesome teacher for granted.
As for my other kid, she was able to get a teacher she's had before. Actually, both of my kids have now had her twice and I'm just thrilled. This teacher really brings out the best in kids and I'm happy to see that she's enjoying school too.
So thankful for a happy school year!
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Finally
For those that know, getting my ears pierced was a really big thing. And that's because my dad had some real issues with getting holes in my ear.
But at a recent dinner, he sort of gave me his blessing to go do it. And really, I'm close to 40! I shouldn't have to have to get his blessing. But it was this long standing issue I've had with my dad and it was really hard to shake.
So sure enough, I went to get it done. The woman was sweet. Though she couldn't understand why it took me so long. The length of time it took me to do it, one would think it was because I was making some life altering decision. Nope. Just two little holes in my ear.
Part of my decision of wanting to get them was because of travelling! When I go travelling now, I tend to get jewellery of some sort. Every time I wear it, I get to reminisce about where I was, when I got it, and all the other great memories of that trip. Earrings will now give me a bigger option in terms of travelling souvenirs.
I'm thinking Croatia will have some nifty souvenirs for me!
First Week Back
It was my first week back to work this week after a bit of a hiatus. Wow. Talk about a bit of information overload. This weekend, I really do feel a bit jet lagged just due to the information that was coming in and what needed to be done. I survived and am caught up. PHEW.
It certainly was nice to see folks I liked and getting caught up on everything under the sun. Maybe some different adult interaction is what I needed. In some ways, there were so many changes in the workplace and yet in some instances, it's like nothing changed.
The only thing that has been really difficult is getting up at 4:45 again. Wowsers. It was easy during the summer, but now that it's dark in the mornings. It's a real chore. And especially since my carpooling will be ending shortly and I will have no more work at home days. Actually, everybody is mourning the fact that we will no longer have work at home days.
I know, I know. First world problems. But the time and commute really does change how our family will run. But we will make it work.
2031...my retirement year. It's soon right?
It certainly was nice to see folks I liked and getting caught up on everything under the sun. Maybe some different adult interaction is what I needed. In some ways, there were so many changes in the workplace and yet in some instances, it's like nothing changed.
The only thing that has been really difficult is getting up at 4:45 again. Wowsers. It was easy during the summer, but now that it's dark in the mornings. It's a real chore. And especially since my carpooling will be ending shortly and I will have no more work at home days. Actually, everybody is mourning the fact that we will no longer have work at home days.
I know, I know. First world problems. But the time and commute really does change how our family will run. But we will make it work.
2031...my retirement year. It's soon right?
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Promotion
Probably about the only person that talks herself out of a promotion...on purpose.
I was asked to take on some new responsibilities and I would be compensated for that. However, the more I listened, the more I knew it wasn't for me.
The money was attractive. The title seemed great. But it's not all about the money and title. Done that before and I hated my job at that time. I'm at a place where I truly feel that I can balance my home life and my work life. That to me is more important than money and a title.
As well, hearing the duties, I know I'd hate what I would become. I would be that bitter employee that is constantly cranky. I would be that miserable employee that everybody hates. That's not good. I would also take that anger and bring it home and probably be the crankiest mom and wife ever. That's no good to anybody either. And all for a bit of extra money?
Sorry, but my sanity, mental health, and happiness are not worth that extra bit of money. Other people probably think I've made the worst decision. But I know myself well enough. Being the miserable employee at work that everybody talks about is not a good thing.
Some would chomp at this opportunity as it's about power and control. Go for it. Be my guest. Some people are meant for certain types of work. And I'm not suited for this.
I was asked to take on some new responsibilities and I would be compensated for that. However, the more I listened, the more I knew it wasn't for me.
The money was attractive. The title seemed great. But it's not all about the money and title. Done that before and I hated my job at that time. I'm at a place where I truly feel that I can balance my home life and my work life. That to me is more important than money and a title.
As well, hearing the duties, I know I'd hate what I would become. I would be that bitter employee that is constantly cranky. I would be that miserable employee that everybody hates. That's not good. I would also take that anger and bring it home and probably be the crankiest mom and wife ever. That's no good to anybody either. And all for a bit of extra money?
Sorry, but my sanity, mental health, and happiness are not worth that extra bit of money. Other people probably think I've made the worst decision. But I know myself well enough. Being the miserable employee at work that everybody talks about is not a good thing.
Some would chomp at this opportunity as it's about power and control. Go for it. Be my guest. Some people are meant for certain types of work. And I'm not suited for this.
Thursday, September 5, 2013
Craigslist
Craiglist - I love you, I hate you.
When it works, it's fabulous. But there are just some amazingly mean people out there.
I put up some items for free because I don't need them but figured someone else would. Thought it would be more targeted to someone who wanted the item rather than just to Big Brothers or some other non-profit organization that resells donated items.
But today, I got the meanest, harshest and ugliest response. Lot of f bombs, calling me all sorts of names and telling me to just throw it in the trash because no one in their right mind would spend gas to go get it. I've given lots of stuff off on Craigslist for free and everybody has been appreciative.
The fact that someone could be that mean spirited and spend the time to be that nasty amazes me. If you don't want it, go on to the next ad. I'm not asking you to take it. I couldn't care less that you didn't want it. Dude...it was FREE.
Am I pissed? Absolutely? I was going to write back but then they would have my e-mail. At least through the Craigslist e-mail, he doesn't know who I am. Knowing my luck, he'd stalk me and egg my house.
Bad karma to that freakoid.
When it works, it's fabulous. But there are just some amazingly mean people out there.
I put up some items for free because I don't need them but figured someone else would. Thought it would be more targeted to someone who wanted the item rather than just to Big Brothers or some other non-profit organization that resells donated items.
But today, I got the meanest, harshest and ugliest response. Lot of f bombs, calling me all sorts of names and telling me to just throw it in the trash because no one in their right mind would spend gas to go get it. I've given lots of stuff off on Craigslist for free and everybody has been appreciative.
The fact that someone could be that mean spirited and spend the time to be that nasty amazes me. If you don't want it, go on to the next ad. I'm not asking you to take it. I couldn't care less that you didn't want it. Dude...it was FREE.
Am I pissed? Absolutely? I was going to write back but then they would have my e-mail. At least through the Craigslist e-mail, he doesn't know who I am. Knowing my luck, he'd stalk me and egg my house.
Bad karma to that freakoid.
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Kids and Friends
Today, I had to console my youngest kid. She was crying so hard when she saw me. Her day was kind of crappy and really, it all came down to 1 kid.
Now, I'm an advocate of kids learning to deal the best way possible with other kids. The reality is that those same people are out in the workplace and in the real world. I can't be there to fight every battle.
But this one kid is a bully, is mean, and is downright devious. Not a real fan of hers. However, I love the rest of the family.
I've coached my kid on different tactics. And for the most part, they work. But the reality is, hurt people hurt other people. And I don't know what happened to this kid, but she obviously has been hurt and rejected by others. But lashing out, being a total bully and just playing mean mind games with other kids isolates her even more.
I felt so bad for my kid. It's a crappy way to end the day...and it's only the 2nd day of school. Hopefully this resolves itself. Better yet, I hope this kid is in a different class from my kid and actually leaves the daycare. That will end this in a jiffy.
If life were so easy.
Now, I'm an advocate of kids learning to deal the best way possible with other kids. The reality is that those same people are out in the workplace and in the real world. I can't be there to fight every battle.
But this one kid is a bully, is mean, and is downright devious. Not a real fan of hers. However, I love the rest of the family.
I've coached my kid on different tactics. And for the most part, they work. But the reality is, hurt people hurt other people. And I don't know what happened to this kid, but she obviously has been hurt and rejected by others. But lashing out, being a total bully and just playing mean mind games with other kids isolates her even more.
I felt so bad for my kid. It's a crappy way to end the day...and it's only the 2nd day of school. Hopefully this resolves itself. Better yet, I hope this kid is in a different class from my kid and actually leaves the daycare. That will end this in a jiffy.
If life were so easy.
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Pet Peeve
One of my big pet peeves...teachers who can't SPELL and refuse to use a dictionary.
I don't know how many posts or newsletters that I get with a large number of spelling errors in them...and they are from teachers. Makes me wonder if they are teaching children to spell properly! But really, isn't there a phrase about putting your best foot forward?!
Biggest offenders lately, spelling clothes without the e, or wasps but spelled waps, and don't get me started with the their, they're and there issue!
And of all the professions too.
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Actions Not Words
As it's my last day of work for a while, I had a meeting with my boss to finalize all the loose ends. As well, to have a discussion about the future. My new boss has been with us for less than 2 months.
My attitude when I first met her was to just continue to do what I do in terms of work. Show her what I do and how I do it well. And also just be me in terms of attitude. I don't treat her any differently than I treat anybody else in the office. I'm still me. Heck, I dressed up for the first day of meeting her...after that, it was all casual wear. Honestly, I should be embarrassed by what I wear to work. But there is no dress code! Woo hoo!
And I'm glad I stuck with that plan. I'm not a person that has to tell everybody what I do and how great I do it. Because I really don't do that much well. And for the things that I do well, I try to let my actions and work show how good I am. I find that way more effective.
Perhaps there are people who would say that it's not smart to do it that way because you don't compliments or feel recognized by others. Maybe. But I recognize the work that I do and I see the importance of it. I feel good knowing that I've done a good job. That is kudos enough.
But I'm not going to lie when I say it was great to hear compliments from my boss. She thought my work was great, my interactions within the organization and my professionalism was top notch. And I was a bit shocked at the potential she saw in me.
So it was a really great way to end off the day and to start some time off. Yeah....
My attitude when I first met her was to just continue to do what I do in terms of work. Show her what I do and how I do it well. And also just be me in terms of attitude. I don't treat her any differently than I treat anybody else in the office. I'm still me. Heck, I dressed up for the first day of meeting her...after that, it was all casual wear. Honestly, I should be embarrassed by what I wear to work. But there is no dress code! Woo hoo!
And I'm glad I stuck with that plan. I'm not a person that has to tell everybody what I do and how great I do it. Because I really don't do that much well. And for the things that I do well, I try to let my actions and work show how good I am. I find that way more effective.
Perhaps there are people who would say that it's not smart to do it that way because you don't compliments or feel recognized by others. Maybe. But I recognize the work that I do and I see the importance of it. I feel good knowing that I've done a good job. That is kudos enough.
But I'm not going to lie when I say it was great to hear compliments from my boss. She thought my work was great, my interactions within the organization and my professionalism was top notch. And I was a bit shocked at the potential she saw in me.
So it was a really great way to end off the day and to start some time off. Yeah....
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Chatty Cathys
I have been attacked by the Chatty Cathys lately. I mean, I can talk. But I have nothing on these people. They make me look like a wallflower.
Sometimes, I have to go a different direction or not look these people in they eye. Not because I don't like them, but seriously, if I end up talking to them, it's not 2 minutes. It's a full 1/2 hour despite the fact that I'm turning away, saying I have to head off to do something. They follow me. Then I feel really bad because I have to be rude and cut them off.
I guess I'm not really rude because those folks keep coming back.
Or maybe I'll just put blinders on....
Sometimes, I have to go a different direction or not look these people in they eye. Not because I don't like them, but seriously, if I end up talking to them, it's not 2 minutes. It's a full 1/2 hour despite the fact that I'm turning away, saying I have to head off to do something. They follow me. Then I feel really bad because I have to be rude and cut them off.
I guess I'm not really rude because those folks keep coming back.
Or maybe I'll just put blinders on....
Saturday, August 10, 2013
It's been a while!
Life really does happen and then everything else gets put to the side. 'Tis life!
In a snapshot (so I can start blogging regularly from my small hiatus):
In a snapshot (so I can start blogging regularly from my small hiatus):
- 1D was awesome! Young kids learning how to perform. Really, they were 5 kids running on stage and singing. But it was cool.
- Figured out I'm going to be stinking poor next year due to vacations. I know, true first world problems. I've confirming some trips, but I know that Croatia is a go and renting this amazing house past Whistler. OMG. It has its own elevator and movie theatre inside!!
- Other trips that I'm working on: Barbados and wine cruise to California.
- Work is good. My boss completely rocks. Seriously rocks.
Those are highlights. No need to talk about lowlights. Because really, they're still first world problems and can totally be fixed.
Hope all is well on your end of things....
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Eyelashes
Ok...I have crappy little lashes. They're short and sparse. I've always wanted to get eyelash extensions but really, not being able to scrub my face and have the little eyelashes drop off like dead flowers was not appealing.
So, my girlfriend introduced me to fake eyelashes. $2 a shot. And really, she looks SO amazing in them. I wanted in.
Now, this girlfriend is also a co-worker. So I watch her do her lashes in the morning and it takes her like 2 minutes. I decided I'd go home and buy a pair and just try it. I mean, it looks so easy.
Um. Looks are deceiving. The first couple of times I tried it, I honestly glued my eyes shut so many times. It was like pink eye gone wild. Or when I finally would get one side, the other one would be crooked or so off the mark.
But then, I got the official lesson. She put them on me. But while she was getting ready to put them on me, she told me what I needed to do, tips on getting it right, how to hide the mistakes. The funny part was that other co-workers were there sitting in on the lesson as they were trying to figure out their pair. Seriously, these lashes have been the total talk of the office. LOL!
So, on Saturday, I finally took the time to take in all those tips and try them on. My husband gave me some pointers in how they looked. And then, I finally got them right. I have no stinking clue how long it took. But I did it. And seriously, why didn't someone tell me they were so life changing?!
I look like I have eyes that open!!! OMG. Maybe I won't have my eyes taped up at the optometrist's office anymore.
So thank you to my lovely friend for the life changing moment.
So, my girlfriend introduced me to fake eyelashes. $2 a shot. And really, she looks SO amazing in them. I wanted in.
Now, this girlfriend is also a co-worker. So I watch her do her lashes in the morning and it takes her like 2 minutes. I decided I'd go home and buy a pair and just try it. I mean, it looks so easy.
Um. Looks are deceiving. The first couple of times I tried it, I honestly glued my eyes shut so many times. It was like pink eye gone wild. Or when I finally would get one side, the other one would be crooked or so off the mark.
But then, I got the official lesson. She put them on me. But while she was getting ready to put them on me, she told me what I needed to do, tips on getting it right, how to hide the mistakes. The funny part was that other co-workers were there sitting in on the lesson as they were trying to figure out their pair. Seriously, these lashes have been the total talk of the office. LOL!
So, on Saturday, I finally took the time to take in all those tips and try them on. My husband gave me some pointers in how they looked. And then, I finally got them right. I have no stinking clue how long it took. But I did it. And seriously, why didn't someone tell me they were so life changing?!
I look like I have eyes that open!!! OMG. Maybe I won't have my eyes taped up at the optometrist's office anymore.
So thank you to my lovely friend for the life changing moment.
Monday, July 1, 2013
Long Weekend
This was quite a long weekend, as in, lots happened that brought up a ton of different emotions.
There was lots to celebrate but also lots to mourn this weekend. Let me start of with the not so great news. Someone close to me who has known me for 38 years passed away this weekend. He was like my second father. And he absolutely treated me as one of his own children. At times, taking me in to live with him for a little while when my parents were both away/in the middle of their divorce. At times, when money was so tight for our family, he made sure we didn't pay for daycare. He has continued to be with me through all my highs and lows. But due to his health, he passed away on Saturday afternoon.
As sad as I am about this loss, I am grateful that I took the Friday off of work. In a previous post, I had mentioned that I had a dream that someone was dying. And I just felt like I needed to go see him. I had called his house on the Thursday night to see if I could visit on Friday. I received a call back from one of his children telling me about his stay in the hospital.
On Friday, I went to go visit. Stayed with the family. Brought food so that the caretakers could at least have a moment from themselves and eat crappy hospital food. And I got a chance to be with him, say all that I needed to say, including that I loved him. Not many get a chance to say goodbye to their loved ones, but I did.
What has always amazed me about this man is how selfless he is and how caring he was to all. Even on his deathbed, he could barely talk, but he wanted to make sure his wife was ok. And when she finally stopped fretting, he actually calmed down knowing that she was ok. And when he saw me, he still knew who I was. I knew he was in pain...but even then, he asked about my family and wanted to make sure that we were all ok. And when I told him that we were, he smiled and squeezed my hand.
I don't know of a lot of people who would still worry about others while on their deathbed. But this man sure did. The world truly lost a selfless, loving, and wonderful human being. I'm honoured to have known him and am truly thankful for his love and support. I'm sorry for the world's loss but I am thankful he is no longer in pain. Thank you for everything Tony. xoxo!!!
But even with the loss this weekend, life continues on. And I knew I needed to continue to live and enjoy the good milestones too. Tony would have wanted me to do that. And so, I celebrated a birthday party for a lovely young lady, went to a baby shower for a first time mom, went to a wedding anniversary and celebrated Canada Day.
No matter what losses we encounter, life really does go on.
There was lots to celebrate but also lots to mourn this weekend. Let me start of with the not so great news. Someone close to me who has known me for 38 years passed away this weekend. He was like my second father. And he absolutely treated me as one of his own children. At times, taking me in to live with him for a little while when my parents were both away/in the middle of their divorce. At times, when money was so tight for our family, he made sure we didn't pay for daycare. He has continued to be with me through all my highs and lows. But due to his health, he passed away on Saturday afternoon.
As sad as I am about this loss, I am grateful that I took the Friday off of work. In a previous post, I had mentioned that I had a dream that someone was dying. And I just felt like I needed to go see him. I had called his house on the Thursday night to see if I could visit on Friday. I received a call back from one of his children telling me about his stay in the hospital.
On Friday, I went to go visit. Stayed with the family. Brought food so that the caretakers could at least have a moment from themselves and eat crappy hospital food. And I got a chance to be with him, say all that I needed to say, including that I loved him. Not many get a chance to say goodbye to their loved ones, but I did.
What has always amazed me about this man is how selfless he is and how caring he was to all. Even on his deathbed, he could barely talk, but he wanted to make sure his wife was ok. And when she finally stopped fretting, he actually calmed down knowing that she was ok. And when he saw me, he still knew who I was. I knew he was in pain...but even then, he asked about my family and wanted to make sure that we were all ok. And when I told him that we were, he smiled and squeezed my hand.
I don't know of a lot of people who would still worry about others while on their deathbed. But this man sure did. The world truly lost a selfless, loving, and wonderful human being. I'm honoured to have known him and am truly thankful for his love and support. I'm sorry for the world's loss but I am thankful he is no longer in pain. Thank you for everything Tony. xoxo!!!
But even with the loss this weekend, life continues on. And I knew I needed to continue to live and enjoy the good milestones too. Tony would have wanted me to do that. And so, I celebrated a birthday party for a lovely young lady, went to a baby shower for a first time mom, went to a wedding anniversary and celebrated Canada Day.
No matter what losses we encounter, life really does go on.
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Find Your You-ness!
Time to throw in my hat for the Expedia and National Film Festival for Talented Youth (NFFTY) contest. The NFFTY is the world's largest youth film festival.
The contest is to write a blog post about what my focus would be if I visited a particular destination to make a travel "Find Your ____" video.
My chances of winning are slim as there are a number of entries for this amazing contest. But I am still going to enter because travelling really is one of the most amazing things in the world and I wanted to share my story.
My video would be called Find Your You-ness in Australia. I would choose this location as it is diverse in nature and people, offering so many activities and adventures that are not available here at home. These differences and environments that I'm not used to would push me to try adventures I haven't tried before and to learn what I can and cannot do. And even the act of travelling and meeting others forces you to find out who you really are in a country that you don't know a soul.
There would be a number of things I would want to try to push myself and find out what makes me...well, me!
I would love to set up a bench/area in some random city in Australia. There would be a sign saying something along the lines of "What makes you unique" or "Whoever comes and sits here is the right person." It would be so random but I love just talking to people and see how they're similar to me and better yet, how they are different. We're half a world away from each other, but there must be something similar and there must be something about me that makes me unique! Who knows where the conversation would lead to? How fun would that be?
Would love to visit a destination in Australia that has dolphins that I could swim with! How amazing to be with such unique mammals that I could share curiosity about the world and the joy of swimming.
It would be incredible to surf in some of the most pristine waters. I've just started surfing. It would be an opportunity to test my new found skills in a new country and new waters. Can I do it? Is it the same or is it different?
I would love to try camping under the stars in Ayers Rock. Not because I love camping (in fact, I'm a terrible camper), but because I want to push myself to live in the elements. What can I actually do with no essentials like electricity?
Would love to try a tree top adventure/or rock climbing! I'm terrified of heights! But I want to push myself to see what I can do! I want to prove to myself that it's ok to be scared, but being able to conquer a fear would just add another element of being me and what I could do.
Each experience pushes one to discover your true self. And travelling in such a different place would offer such amazing opportunities to push myself in many different ways to really help me find out who I truly am!
Thanks for the great contest and good luck to all participants!!
The contest is to write a blog post about what my focus would be if I visited a particular destination to make a travel "Find Your ____" video.
My chances of winning are slim as there are a number of entries for this amazing contest. But I am still going to enter because travelling really is one of the most amazing things in the world and I wanted to share my story.
My video would be called Find Your You-ness in Australia. I would choose this location as it is diverse in nature and people, offering so many activities and adventures that are not available here at home. These differences and environments that I'm not used to would push me to try adventures I haven't tried before and to learn what I can and cannot do. And even the act of travelling and meeting others forces you to find out who you really are in a country that you don't know a soul.
There would be a number of things I would want to try to push myself and find out what makes me...well, me!
I would love to set up a bench/area in some random city in Australia. There would be a sign saying something along the lines of "What makes you unique" or "Whoever comes and sits here is the right person." It would be so random but I love just talking to people and see how they're similar to me and better yet, how they are different. We're half a world away from each other, but there must be something similar and there must be something about me that makes me unique! Who knows where the conversation would lead to? How fun would that be?
Would love to visit a destination in Australia that has dolphins that I could swim with! How amazing to be with such unique mammals that I could share curiosity about the world and the joy of swimming.
It would be incredible to surf in some of the most pristine waters. I've just started surfing. It would be an opportunity to test my new found skills in a new country and new waters. Can I do it? Is it the same or is it different?
I would love to try camping under the stars in Ayers Rock. Not because I love camping (in fact, I'm a terrible camper), but because I want to push myself to live in the elements. What can I actually do with no essentials like electricity?
Would love to try a tree top adventure/or rock climbing! I'm terrified of heights! But I want to push myself to see what I can do! I want to prove to myself that it's ok to be scared, but being able to conquer a fear would just add another element of being me and what I could do.
Each experience pushes one to discover your true self. And travelling in such a different place would offer such amazing opportunities to push myself in many different ways to really help me find out who I truly am!
Thanks for the great contest and good luck to all participants!!
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
Ring
Well, even though I had an unexpected day learning about my travels, the one thing that I did plan on doing today was to go pick up my wedding ring. I had to get it fixed as I had dented the thing from taiko drumming. I went back to it for a little bit, but my schedule and the distance to the studio made it difficult to go all the time.
But due to the dent, I couldn't get my ring on after I took it off. Bummer. My husband thought I was purposely not wearing it. Nope. Just couldn't get it on with the dent!
I finally got it fixed and it's back on my fingers. Is it the biggest ring? Nope. Is it the fanciest one? Nope. But the ring is mine, given to me by my husband. And that in itself means so much.
And I really did feel better having it back on. The ring, all shiny and cleaned up, reminded me once again of the vows I took 13 years ago. It made me think of all that my husband and I have gone through. It made me think about my future with him and all our future plans together. Marriage can be tough but it can also be so amazing.
Amazing what a chunk of metal and a shiny rock can represent.
But due to the dent, I couldn't get my ring on after I took it off. Bummer. My husband thought I was purposely not wearing it. Nope. Just couldn't get it on with the dent!
I finally got it fixed and it's back on my fingers. Is it the biggest ring? Nope. Is it the fanciest one? Nope. But the ring is mine, given to me by my husband. And that in itself means so much.
And I really did feel better having it back on. The ring, all shiny and cleaned up, reminded me once again of the vows I took 13 years ago. It made me think of all that my husband and I have gone through. It made me think about my future with him and all our future plans together. Marriage can be tough but it can also be so amazing.
Amazing what a chunk of metal and a shiny rock can represent.
Unexpected Day
You can plan for a day, but sometimes your day doesn't turn out the way you planned. But sometimes, it's those days you get the neatest surprises!
As next year is my 40th, I've been yapping with a number of my friends about possible ideas and trips to celebrate. It's quite the milestone and I figured I'm going to celebrate. My hubby is going away with a number of his buddies soon to Vegas. That's totally awesome. His best buds in a crazy city like Vegas. They all need to let loose and good on them. However, that's not my kind of thing.
So ideas have been bounced around for Europe, possibly Barbados, Spain or maybe even Japan. Honestly, it wouldn't really matter as it would be something different. However, I know that people are busy and sometimes we just talk about travelling, but we'll never get to it because life just gets in the way. So, I mentioned to my hubby that in the event that my travel plans fall through, I'm going to go on a trip on my own. Not sure where, but I will go and travel by myself. I love the adventure and have no problem trying things on my own.
And sometimes, I guess when you put things out there, things happen. Imagine...today, I'm at work, checking my e-mails like any ordinary day. I see some message with Congratulations on the header. I'm thinking it's probably spam. But it seems legit enough.
So I open it. Basically, I won a tour of Croatia...accommodations and transportation within. Couple of meals thrown in there too. Yes, I have to buy airfare...but STILL. Worth every penny for a guided tour of the place!!! I can't say this was a top 10 destination, but it was definitely a place I wanted to visit. And now I will!!
And of course, my mind is just reeling about where I could possibly hop to in conjunction with this trip. If I'm there, might as well just add another day or two somewhere. I might not end up doing so. But it's definitely worth thinking about.
I also just heard back from one of my friends just now...she's interested in joining me in Croatia...or she's still open to Barbados/Caribbean!!
So, I didn't expect today to be a day about travel. But it definitely has turned out that way...and I'm just thrilled!!! And that's just life sometimes. You never know where it may lead you and take you.
Time to go grab me some maps!!!
As next year is my 40th, I've been yapping with a number of my friends about possible ideas and trips to celebrate. It's quite the milestone and I figured I'm going to celebrate. My hubby is going away with a number of his buddies soon to Vegas. That's totally awesome. His best buds in a crazy city like Vegas. They all need to let loose and good on them. However, that's not my kind of thing.
So ideas have been bounced around for Europe, possibly Barbados, Spain or maybe even Japan. Honestly, it wouldn't really matter as it would be something different. However, I know that people are busy and sometimes we just talk about travelling, but we'll never get to it because life just gets in the way. So, I mentioned to my hubby that in the event that my travel plans fall through, I'm going to go on a trip on my own. Not sure where, but I will go and travel by myself. I love the adventure and have no problem trying things on my own.
And sometimes, I guess when you put things out there, things happen. Imagine...today, I'm at work, checking my e-mails like any ordinary day. I see some message with Congratulations on the header. I'm thinking it's probably spam. But it seems legit enough.
So I open it. Basically, I won a tour of Croatia...accommodations and transportation within. Couple of meals thrown in there too. Yes, I have to buy airfare...but STILL. Worth every penny for a guided tour of the place!!! I can't say this was a top 10 destination, but it was definitely a place I wanted to visit. And now I will!!
And of course, my mind is just reeling about where I could possibly hop to in conjunction with this trip. If I'm there, might as well just add another day or two somewhere. I might not end up doing so. But it's definitely worth thinking about.
I also just heard back from one of my friends just now...she's interested in joining me in Croatia...or she's still open to Barbados/Caribbean!!
So, I didn't expect today to be a day about travel. But it definitely has turned out that way...and I'm just thrilled!!! And that's just life sometimes. You never know where it may lead you and take you.
Time to go grab me some maps!!!
Saturday, June 22, 2013
Dreams
For those that don't know me well, my dreams can be pretty good indicators for things. I actually dreamt of 3 pregnancies and sure enough, friends of mine had babies. One of them, I even called up and said that they were going to have another baby. They didn't believe me. But they did when they got the positive test.
However, the flip side is just as true. I've dreamt of certain people telling me they would pass or I'd have some really inexplicable dream with the person in it, then when waking, be ever so sad about the person. That's when I know they're leaving.
Call it coincidence. But some of these dreams, I never get an indication from the person that perhaps they are sick/wanting to get pregnant, etc. Maybe it's some weird magical thing in the air.
I like the happy dreams, not the yucky ones where the person goes. And I'm concerned that someone will be leaving me. I had the dream where the wife called and gave me the bad news that her husband was passing. I hope I'm wrong because I hate it when I'm right about these types of dreams.
However, the flip side is just as true. I've dreamt of certain people telling me they would pass or I'd have some really inexplicable dream with the person in it, then when waking, be ever so sad about the person. That's when I know they're leaving.
Call it coincidence. But some of these dreams, I never get an indication from the person that perhaps they are sick/wanting to get pregnant, etc. Maybe it's some weird magical thing in the air.
I like the happy dreams, not the yucky ones where the person goes. And I'm concerned that someone will be leaving me. I had the dream where the wife called and gave me the bad news that her husband was passing. I hope I'm wrong because I hate it when I'm right about these types of dreams.
Friday, June 21, 2013
Bus Rides
Now that I've been bussing it back home from work, it brings back memories of why I never truly enjoyed bussing when I was younger. When I was younger, it was about freedom, getting to places to be with friends, to get around, etc. Now it's just a "need" to type of transportation.
So, what I definitely don't miss are all the sick people on the bus. If you're going to be sick, please, bring some Kleenex and take some meds. I don't want to get sick. Because if I go down and the kids go down, I'm going to be upset. When I'm down and sick but still have to do everything else, I'm not very fun to be around. Everbody's going down with me.
I don't miss the long journey. Even though I carpool in the morning, I'm there usually by 6:20 but I can't start until 7. I'm waking up at 4:45. But the bus ride back home, on a bad day can easily take 1.5 hours. I'm travelling to Seattle every time I go into work. It bites and definitely eats into my time. Hello...I could watch almost 3 episodes of a show!!
I don't miss the painful flirting that goes on between people. For example, today, this one lady was sitting next to this guy and they knew each other. Looked like they were co-workers. But she was obviously flirting, blushing at all the right moments and doing a ton of nervous chatter (which if frustrating to listen to). But the sad part was that the guy talked about his wife, his kids and how long he's been married for...and that he can't wait to take his next family trip. Girl. You're looking for love in all the wrong places!! And take a breath...you're talking WAY too much.
Right now, it's summer and the weather has been pretty good for commuting. But come winter, it's going to suck with the rainy umbrellas, big jackets and jam packed bus!
I could go on and on about the crazies that I meet on the bus, the insane stories I hear about, the stupid make out sessions that I have to see, and just the random crap that is so not fun.
But it is what it is. And it does save me money versus driving all the way downtown. So no complaints on the saving part. But oh...wouldn't I just love a shorter commute with less crazies.
So, what I definitely don't miss are all the sick people on the bus. If you're going to be sick, please, bring some Kleenex and take some meds. I don't want to get sick. Because if I go down and the kids go down, I'm going to be upset. When I'm down and sick but still have to do everything else, I'm not very fun to be around. Everbody's going down with me.
I don't miss the long journey. Even though I carpool in the morning, I'm there usually by 6:20 but I can't start until 7. I'm waking up at 4:45. But the bus ride back home, on a bad day can easily take 1.5 hours. I'm travelling to Seattle every time I go into work. It bites and definitely eats into my time. Hello...I could watch almost 3 episodes of a show!!
I don't miss the painful flirting that goes on between people. For example, today, this one lady was sitting next to this guy and they knew each other. Looked like they were co-workers. But she was obviously flirting, blushing at all the right moments and doing a ton of nervous chatter (which if frustrating to listen to). But the sad part was that the guy talked about his wife, his kids and how long he's been married for...and that he can't wait to take his next family trip. Girl. You're looking for love in all the wrong places!! And take a breath...you're talking WAY too much.
Right now, it's summer and the weather has been pretty good for commuting. But come winter, it's going to suck with the rainy umbrellas, big jackets and jam packed bus!
I could go on and on about the crazies that I meet on the bus, the insane stories I hear about, the stupid make out sessions that I have to see, and just the random crap that is so not fun.
But it is what it is. And it does save me money versus driving all the way downtown. So no complaints on the saving part. But oh...wouldn't I just love a shorter commute with less crazies.
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Friendships
As my kids get older, the conversations become different. I don't have to talk about Dora or High 5. I don't have to talk about poop and farts. Well, maybe a little on the poop and farts.
But it really is nice to have deeper conversations with them.
Last night, we were at the dinner table just talking about our days. Homework, daycare, school. Then they started talking about their friends. "I like C. because she's funny, silly but really, really nice. We share the same interest in art and she's really talented."
Well, that's lovely and all. But I would ask them how that friend made them feel? "Oh, I feel really good around them. They give me energy and it's fun."
And what was interesting to me is who they talked about next. They both are having issues with a girl in school/daycare. They started listing out all the things that this little girl has done that they don't like. And it's a pretty big list. When I asked them if they play with her, they both said, "no way!" "I don't like her because she says yucky things about others." "I don't like her because she gives ultimatums!!"
Granted, we are not talking about full on betrayals or anything crazy like on Desperate Housewives. But I can see that they are understanding the complexities of friendships and how they can make you feel. Friendships should make you feel good and restored, not depleted. And it's nice to see that they're making good choices in terms of their friends that support them and make them feel good.
Ok. I'm taking a small moment to congratulate myself for not being a total failure of a mother.
But it really is nice to have deeper conversations with them.
Last night, we were at the dinner table just talking about our days. Homework, daycare, school. Then they started talking about their friends. "I like C. because she's funny, silly but really, really nice. We share the same interest in art and she's really talented."
Well, that's lovely and all. But I would ask them how that friend made them feel? "Oh, I feel really good around them. They give me energy and it's fun."
And what was interesting to me is who they talked about next. They both are having issues with a girl in school/daycare. They started listing out all the things that this little girl has done that they don't like. And it's a pretty big list. When I asked them if they play with her, they both said, "no way!" "I don't like her because she says yucky things about others." "I don't like her because she gives ultimatums!!"
Granted, we are not talking about full on betrayals or anything crazy like on Desperate Housewives. But I can see that they are understanding the complexities of friendships and how they can make you feel. Friendships should make you feel good and restored, not depleted. And it's nice to see that they're making good choices in terms of their friends that support them and make them feel good.
Ok. I'm taking a small moment to congratulate myself for not being a total failure of a mother.
Thursday, June 6, 2013
Blogging Again
Well, I sure took a hiatus from writing! Sometimes life just takes over and really, blogging is the last thing on my mind.
So, what's happened since I last blogged? Let me start off with Honolulu. Had a great time with friends and some of their family. It was nice that I had no responsibilities per se to anyone. I didn't have my kids, or hubby. And with my friends, we all agreed that we are responsible for ourselves...so if we wanted to take off and do something, by all means, go for it.
Got lots of sun. Got some good surfing and snorkelling in. Tried some new restaurants and had some good grub. Got a chance to do some stuff that I haven't been able to do, like hike Diamond Head. Even made my to some Hawaii Five-O sites. But overall, I chilled. I love chilling.
Of course, Hula girl came with me and she had a lovely time going back to her home land! Though, I am a little sad that Hula Girls' arm refused to stay "unbroken." So, she was the amputee Hula Girl. Still loved her the same.
So here are some pics:
Waikiki Beach
Me, forever as the fat pineapple at the Dole Factory:
After Waikiki, I came back home for a short while and then headed out to Gatineau/Ottawa for work purposes. Well, it was still "winter" and no Hawaii. But I must admit, the heated pool outside was divine! I loved that I could swim outside as if I was at the beach (even at night time) and was warm! And though I was there for work purposes, at night time, that was my own time. My girlfriend flew out from Toronto to come spend some time with me! Yay!!
View from my window...notice how different it is from Hawaii?
Some fun cookies at a bakery in Ottawa:
Ottawa was doing really well in the playoffs, so hockey fever was on!
Oooo. Obama cookies!
Coming home from Gatineau was great. Got to see the family and be with them once again. Though, while I was away, a small problem was brewing in the house. Actually turned out to be a HUGE problem. One that was large enough where we had to break down drywall and renovate. In a nutshell, a big, fat, rotting rat in between the wall of my pantry and garage. And when you're not a DIY home renovation person, renos take a little longer.
And life just keeps ticking by. Lessons, activities, birthdays, taxes and everything else in between.
Big shout out to my "flower girl" who isn't so little anymore. Happy Graduation!! So proud of you!
So, what's happened since I last blogged? Let me start off with Honolulu. Had a great time with friends and some of their family. It was nice that I had no responsibilities per se to anyone. I didn't have my kids, or hubby. And with my friends, we all agreed that we are responsible for ourselves...so if we wanted to take off and do something, by all means, go for it.
Got lots of sun. Got some good surfing and snorkelling in. Tried some new restaurants and had some good grub. Got a chance to do some stuff that I haven't been able to do, like hike Diamond Head. Even made my to some Hawaii Five-O sites. But overall, I chilled. I love chilling.
Of course, Hula girl came with me and she had a lovely time going back to her home land! Though, I am a little sad that Hula Girls' arm refused to stay "unbroken." So, she was the amputee Hula Girl. Still loved her the same.
So here are some pics:
Waikiki Beach
Me, forever as the fat pineapple at the Dole Factory:
Hanauma Bay for some snorkelling
After Waikiki, I came back home for a short while and then headed out to Gatineau/Ottawa for work purposes. Well, it was still "winter" and no Hawaii. But I must admit, the heated pool outside was divine! I loved that I could swim outside as if I was at the beach (even at night time) and was warm! And though I was there for work purposes, at night time, that was my own time. My girlfriend flew out from Toronto to come spend some time with me! Yay!!
View from my window...notice how different it is from Hawaii?
Some fun cookies at a bakery in Ottawa:
Ottawa was doing really well in the playoffs, so hockey fever was on!
Oooo. Obama cookies!
Coming home from Gatineau was great. Got to see the family and be with them once again. Though, while I was away, a small problem was brewing in the house. Actually turned out to be a HUGE problem. One that was large enough where we had to break down drywall and renovate. In a nutshell, a big, fat, rotting rat in between the wall of my pantry and garage. And when you're not a DIY home renovation person, renos take a little longer.
And life just keeps ticking by. Lessons, activities, birthdays, taxes and everything else in between.
Big shout out to my "flower girl" who isn't so little anymore. Happy Graduation!! So proud of you!
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Harrison
I recently returned from my Wild Women's Weekend or WWW as we call it. Is it that "wild?" Nope. But it's a bunch of women getting together having a great time.
Some years, it's been 40+ people. Those were a bit insane but crazy good. This year, due to scheduling, there were 6 on both nights. The individuals were different as some came one night only. But 6 girlfriends getting together to do nothing but chill is a wonderful thing.
It really is unbelievable how much there is to catch up on and how many memories girlfriends can talk about. The first night, we were up talking for hours on end. I went to bed after midnight and some others stayed up until 2:30. Yeah, those that know me...staying up past midnight is WAY late. And this group knew it too. I even got big claps and high fives for staying up late. LOL!
Second day, honestly...it was just food and chatting. Maybe some tv in there. But again, yap, yap, yap. We were even going to go out to get some fresh air...but there was hail and rain and mega wind. So, we chatted some more.
And on the morning of the last day, guess what? Yes, more yapping and eating before all headed home. WWW is always a great weekend for me. Just total chill time with some of my favourite people in life. These women get me as I get them.
Until next year.....
Some years, it's been 40+ people. Those were a bit insane but crazy good. This year, due to scheduling, there were 6 on both nights. The individuals were different as some came one night only. But 6 girlfriends getting together to do nothing but chill is a wonderful thing.
It really is unbelievable how much there is to catch up on and how many memories girlfriends can talk about. The first night, we were up talking for hours on end. I went to bed after midnight and some others stayed up until 2:30. Yeah, those that know me...staying up past midnight is WAY late. And this group knew it too. I even got big claps and high fives for staying up late. LOL!
Second day, honestly...it was just food and chatting. Maybe some tv in there. But again, yap, yap, yap. We were even going to go out to get some fresh air...but there was hail and rain and mega wind. So, we chatted some more.
And on the morning of the last day, guess what? Yes, more yapping and eating before all headed home. WWW is always a great weekend for me. Just total chill time with some of my favourite people in life. These women get me as I get them.
Until next year.....
Friday, March 22, 2013
Riding Clothing
I was at some appointment and had to wait. Surprise, surprise. So, I picked up a magazine to kill some time.
There was a magazine showing some english riding apparel. Everybody looks so "dapper" wearing that type of clothing. But my fat butt would never fit into that stuff. Nor am I tall enough. Seriously, I'm not tall enough to ride a "real" horse. When I was in Australia, they made me ride the mini horse.
So after making myself feel bad, I decided to pick up Chatelaine instead. At least they had some good recipes in there.
Instruments Today
Gosh I sound old saying this...but remember the days when instruments were really instruments? There were no electronic do-dads. Just plain old acoustic music. I miss that. There is something to be said about having something pure sounding, unelectronic and just sounding the way it's supposed to sound.
But there are days that I just want to amp up the music and the sounds. Even when I play, there are days that I want purely acoustic and other days, I want to have full on electronic sound gadgets.
If I had the cash, I'd invest in some key pieces for instruments. Maybe something like a tc helicon at Guitar Center would be neat. An amplifier for an electric guitar. You get the sense of what I'm talking about.
But I'm not rich, so I'll just stick to the musical instruments I have at home.
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Umbrellas
Living on the West Coast...there is always a need for an umbrella. I have one in the car, one in my backpack, 3 at home. If I were smart, I'd have one at work too. But I wouldn't want to be a total keener.
But umbrellas have also changed over time. There are stores that have a great, if not a
best selection of personalized umbrellas. PERSONALIZED. That means, I can pick it from a crowd...especially if someone has stolen my umbrella. I can pick it out from a stack of black umbrellas.
If anything, a personalized umbrella would make me feel like it would be fun to be in the rain. Well. Almost. I'm all for rain at night time when I'm sleeping...but the West Coast really needs some more sun and blue sky!
But umbrellas have also changed over time. There are stores that have a great, if not a
best selection of personalized umbrellas. PERSONALIZED. That means, I can pick it from a crowd...especially if someone has stolen my umbrella. I can pick it out from a stack of black umbrellas.
If anything, a personalized umbrella would make me feel like it would be fun to be in the rain. Well. Almost. I'm all for rain at night time when I'm sleeping...but the West Coast really needs some more sun and blue sky!
Book Rentals
In my university days, it was buy the textbooks for hundreds of dollars...and the thousands of dollars in tuition too. I wasn't bright enough to get a scholarship. So hard work was needed to get in and then lots of work hours to pay for university.
But it's such a different time now. You can rent textbooks at places like becksbooks.com. Wow. That would have saved me hundreds if not thousands of dollars.
Such a different time. I feel old.
But it's such a different time now. You can rent textbooks at places like becksbooks.com. Wow. That would have saved me hundreds if not thousands of dollars.
Such a different time. I feel old.
Work
Going back to work the next day I returned from Hawaii was a bit of a shocker to the body. OMG. I'm getting pretty old for a 3 hour time difference.
That first morning was like getting hit over the head. Thank goodness for coffee. Lots of it. We have a quarter a cup at work and it isn't great by any means. But it's cheap and it'll work.
But let's just say that I went through a lot of it. And it wasn't until I headed off to Harrison that I got rid of the jetlag. Gosh. I know others are just fine with it. Me, not so much. So lame....
That first morning was like getting hit over the head. Thank goodness for coffee. Lots of it. We have a quarter a cup at work and it isn't great by any means. But it's cheap and it'll work.
But let's just say that I went through a lot of it. And it wasn't until I headed off to Harrison that I got rid of the jetlag. Gosh. I know others are just fine with it. Me, not so much. So lame....
Background Checks
Call me old fashioned, but in this country, I like it when there are background checks done by official police forces. I don't know why...but I was getting ads for background check pre employment at easybackgrounds. I'm sure they are a completely legit company and it's great that this company is making it easier for employers to get background checks on their potential employers....but I want official police doing it!
LOL! Maybe I'm worried that the company might find something on me that the cops didn't.
LOL! Maybe I'm worried that the company might find something on me that the cops didn't.
Post Hawaii
I have yet to post pictures or details of my Hawaii trip. I had fun and got some great sunshine and blue skies. Hey, good food to boot too. Can't go wrong with that combination.
And of course Hula Girl was with me and I hope to post pictures from her adventure too. Poor thing, kept losing her arm. Well, could be worse I suppose.
After Hawaii, the next weekend was Harrison Hot Springs for my girl's weekend. My girlfriend's parents lent us their huge house. It's just so awesome there and I love it.
And today, booked my tickets to head to Gatineau for a conference. Woo hoo! I miss it there. It's quite pretty and I get to see Ottawa again. Hopefully the snow will be gone.
And after Gatineau, it's Whistler with the family. I don't usually have that much travel back to back. It's been a while. But I'm really enjoying it.
Gosh. I just need to win the lotto now so I can do this all the time!
And of course Hula Girl was with me and I hope to post pictures from her adventure too. Poor thing, kept losing her arm. Well, could be worse I suppose.
After Hawaii, the next weekend was Harrison Hot Springs for my girl's weekend. My girlfriend's parents lent us their huge house. It's just so awesome there and I love it.
And today, booked my tickets to head to Gatineau for a conference. Woo hoo! I miss it there. It's quite pretty and I get to see Ottawa again. Hopefully the snow will be gone.
And after Gatineau, it's Whistler with the family. I don't usually have that much travel back to back. It's been a while. But I'm really enjoying it.
Gosh. I just need to win the lotto now so I can do this all the time!
Instruments
In my last post, I mentioned about taking up the guitar and trumpet. Choosing an instrument is pretty awesome...but why did I choose these? Partly because of the coolness factor. LOL!
Hello...guitar...what rock band doesn't have one? And what amazing acoustic music comes out of a guitar. From Spanish Flamenco dancing, to classical music, to good old rock and roll. Insert Air Guitar here!
As for the trumpet, loved it because it was loud and commanding. Though, I'm sure my parents did not appreciate it at all. I sure played that thing loudly.
I could have chosen an instrument like a Clarinet at WWBW, but I didn't. Seemed to quite of an instrument for me. Too mellow almost. And I don't like reeds in my mouth. Always made my teeth feel like they were going to fall out.
So I will keep to my instruments. Loud and I can air guitar. Wheeeee!
Hello...guitar...what rock band doesn't have one? And what amazing acoustic music comes out of a guitar. From Spanish Flamenco dancing, to classical music, to good old rock and roll. Insert Air Guitar here!
As for the trumpet, loved it because it was loud and commanding. Though, I'm sure my parents did not appreciate it at all. I sure played that thing loudly.
I could have chosen an instrument like a Clarinet at WWBW, but I didn't. Seemed to quite of an instrument for me. Too mellow almost. And I don't like reeds in my mouth. Always made my teeth feel like they were going to fall out.
So I will keep to my instruments. Loud and I can air guitar. Wheeeee!
Musical Instruments
My one kid is learning the ukulele at school. Pretty cool actually. Sure sounds better than the recorder. Since goodness knows when, seems like every kid at a certain age learns the recorder, then ukulele and then an instrument of their choice. I choice guitar and trumpet. Odd combos...but it was fun.
So I wondered if there were "new" types of instruments. Of course there is! I saw a novation launchpad here on this one website. Kind of looks like a rubik's cube, but flat and makes music.
Honestly, I'm not sure who comes up with the stuff. But pretty neat in getting someone geared up to be interested in music.
Honestly, I'm not sure who comes up with the stuff. But pretty neat in getting someone geared up to be interested in music.
Eagles
I was crossing the Golden Ears Bridge the other day. Finally took a look at the metal eagles that are attached to the bridge. For some reason, I thought there was a silver eagle and a gold one. Looks like they're both actually gold coloured. Duh. Golden Ears Bridge, not one silver and one gold eagle bridge.
Hopefully the cost of that bridge will come down. I like the ease of it...but sometimes, paying $6 for a return trip seems a little much. But I guess the bridge has to be paid off somehow.
Money, money, money.....
Hopefully the cost of that bridge will come down. I like the ease of it...but sometimes, paying $6 for a return trip seems a little much. But I guess the bridge has to be paid off somehow.
Money, money, money.....
Gifts
As I shop throughout the year for people's gifts, I'm always on the lookout for new gift stores or neat items. If anything, some inspiration for new gifts of what I can get people.
Found truefitt and hill and they seem to have some nice stuff for men. And this will probably be a neat one to take a closer look at considering there are some guys in my life that seem very difficult to buy for.
Better yet, choose something I like the smell of and give that product away. Ahhhh...a good smelling man...love it.
Better yet, choose something I like the smell of and give that product away. Ahhhh...a good smelling man...love it.
Changing Oil
I might be slighty unconventional in terms of what I want to learn how to do. I'm glad my hubby is ok with it.
I want to learn how to change the oil in my car. Of course, that would mean browsing car lifts to see what would be suitable for me. Why do I want to do this? It's just nice to do things on my own. I hate paying the gazillion bucks over time for things that I can do myself.
However, I guess time is a true commodity. And maybe my time is worth more than what I'm paying for an oil change. But it's just nice to be able to do things on my own.
I want to learn how to change the oil in my car. Of course, that would mean browsing car lifts to see what would be suitable for me. Why do I want to do this? It's just nice to do things on my own. I hate paying the gazillion bucks over time for things that I can do myself.
However, I guess time is a true commodity. And maybe my time is worth more than what I'm paying for an oil change. But it's just nice to be able to do things on my own.
Saturday, March 2, 2013
Heading Out
Well, I'm packing and getting ready to head out of town for a couple of days. Really looking forward to getting some blue skies and beautiful water. Yes, grabbing some great food that I miss dearly. And how about just chilling out?!
It was nice to leave on Friday knowing that I could do what I could do. For the "big" parts of my job, finished that all up. Could leave with a clean conscience. Literally, just going to go enjoy the company that I am with, eat what I want, hang out by the blue water as much as possible and even read a book by my favourite author.
I miss my family already as part of me wants to be there with them. But I have to keep remembering that I need time for myself too in order to be fully there for the family. Taking time for myself is not a bad thing.
This time away will also give an opportunity for the kids to have some time with their dad. With his late hours, he doesn't get to see them as often. So this will be good for him and the kids.
Blink and I'll be back. It's a short trip but it'll be a good one.
I miss my family already as part of me wants to be there with them. But I have to keep remembering that I need time for myself too in order to be fully there for the family. Taking time for myself is not a bad thing.
This time away will also give an opportunity for the kids to have some time with their dad. With his late hours, he doesn't get to see them as often. So this will be good for him and the kids.
Blink and I'll be back. It's a short trip but it'll be a good one.
Happiness
My friend recently said to me that she couldn't even get mad at me recently as I'm genuinely happy. Or something along those lines. She's one of the folks coming on the trip to Hawaii with me and she's done a lot of the leg work. But she's a planner for trips, more than me, so who am I to get in her way?
And I thought that was interesting comment. I wasn't mad...just sort of more curious about what others thought about me. So, I went home and asked my husband. "Am I too happy that it's sickeningly gross?"
He said no. And I believed him because he's not one to sugar coat things. But he did make an interesting comment that I am much perkier when I'm around people. And I just think that it's because I pick up on other people's vibes. He even mentioned that when I meet new people, I'm positive, eager to learn about others, etc. Yeah, probably. As much as I'm weary about some, I love the possibility of what type of relationship I will have with this person in the future. Might not always work out and might even suck, but that's ok, I shed those friendships and continue on with the ones that do work.
Then I thought about it some more as I found my copy of The Happiness Project. I put it down and couldn't remember where I put it. But the chapters I read today seemed to echo my friend's thoughts. I seem genuinely happy. And what this author does for her happiness project and what she discovers are thoughts that I've had for a long time. So I'm not surprised it made her happy as I knew it already made my life happy.
My life is by no means perfect and I've hit some nasty rough patches before. Haven't we all? I won't apologize for being happy the way my life is. Well, it's not like she's looking for an apology so it doesn't matter. LOL!
But maybe I'll just dial it down a notch for some folks as I'm sure it can be overwhelming at times. I'll just do my little happy skip somewhere else.....
And I thought that was interesting comment. I wasn't mad...just sort of more curious about what others thought about me. So, I went home and asked my husband. "Am I too happy that it's sickeningly gross?"
He said no. And I believed him because he's not one to sugar coat things. But he did make an interesting comment that I am much perkier when I'm around people. And I just think that it's because I pick up on other people's vibes. He even mentioned that when I meet new people, I'm positive, eager to learn about others, etc. Yeah, probably. As much as I'm weary about some, I love the possibility of what type of relationship I will have with this person in the future. Might not always work out and might even suck, but that's ok, I shed those friendships and continue on with the ones that do work.
Then I thought about it some more as I found my copy of The Happiness Project. I put it down and couldn't remember where I put it. But the chapters I read today seemed to echo my friend's thoughts. I seem genuinely happy. And what this author does for her happiness project and what she discovers are thoughts that I've had for a long time. So I'm not surprised it made her happy as I knew it already made my life happy.
My life is by no means perfect and I've hit some nasty rough patches before. Haven't we all? I won't apologize for being happy the way my life is. Well, it's not like she's looking for an apology so it doesn't matter. LOL!
But maybe I'll just dial it down a notch for some folks as I'm sure it can be overwhelming at times. I'll just do my little happy skip somewhere else.....
Online Buying
I'm always surprised at what you can buy online these days. Some things I wouldn't want to buy online, i.e. such as clothes. I like to know how things fit. Or shoes...again, how do they look on my wide feet? Online, the shoes look fab, but on my feet, yeesh...like stuffing pig's feet into a pair of shoes that are small. It just isn't pretty.
But some things like medicine (which I don't trust buying online) or even being able to buy discount cigars online. I'm always afraid they have "fake" stuff in it and if you're ingesting it, yeesh...scarier thought.
Nope, I'll stick to my online book buying, my e-bay stuff, and antenna balls. I feel I can't go wrong with those items!
But some things like medicine (which I don't trust buying online) or even being able to buy discount cigars online. I'm always afraid they have "fake" stuff in it and if you're ingesting it, yeesh...scarier thought.
Nope, I'll stick to my online book buying, my e-bay stuff, and antenna balls. I feel I can't go wrong with those items!
Air Filters
I feel very fortunate to be healthy. I've watched enough episodes of Extreme Home Makeover to know that I don't need a hospital setting in my house to stay healthy. Though, out of curiousity, I did go to home hepa filter at hepalta.com to check out how much better these filters were for me.
But I don't need one. Considering the state of my house, if I haven't harmed myself yet, I think I'll be ok.
Something about a bit of dirt and germs to keep your immune system in check. Yeah, that's what I keep telling myself.
But I don't need one. Considering the state of my house, if I haven't harmed myself yet, I think I'll be ok.
Something about a bit of dirt and germs to keep your immune system in check. Yeah, that's what I keep telling myself.
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
BookIt Follow Up
Well, well, well. BookIt. You thought you could quiet me down. But you haven't.
Did you know that the hotel actually contacted me? Did you realize that they're going to their marketing people now to discuss this matter? Did you know that I let them know of the forums and recent victims of your stupid bait and switch tactics and how you screwed all of us over?
No, probably not because you don't answer tweets nor do you look at your Facebook comments. But that's ok.
Even if the hotel continues services with you, they're going to be more guarded now. The seed of doubt has been planted in their mind. And no offence, they're a large enough company that could make a dent in your company if they withdraw their services/contract with you.
I continue on twitter and other mediums to confirm to others how crappy you are. I have to admit, it's been kind of fun.
I don't have much to lose and probably lots to gain...the satisfaction of putting doubts in people's mind of not booking with you.
I'm sure you're grateful for having dealt with me. LOL!
I'm sure you're grateful for having dealt with me. LOL!
Wholesale
It's amazing that a family of my size (tiny) has to buy at wholesale places sometimes. I love checking out the wholesale catalog for certain stores.
But I need to be careful. OMG. Seriously. Those things are money suckers! Oh, I'll just a bit of that, a bit of this. Next thing I know, a couple of hundred dollars down the drain! Granted, I do use the items I buy...but still! Forking out a couple of hundred dollars at once is scary.
So I hope to keep browsing instead of continually buying!
But I need to be careful. OMG. Seriously. Those things are money suckers! Oh, I'll just a bit of that, a bit of this. Next thing I know, a couple of hundred dollars down the drain! Granted, I do use the items I buy...but still! Forking out a couple of hundred dollars at once is scary.
So I hope to keep browsing instead of continually buying!
Saturday, February 9, 2013
Apps
Half of the fun of a smart phone are all the apps you can download for it. Some are great for productivity...but mostly, for entertainment.
I recently downloaded one called Airendipity and I just love it. For those that follow PostSecret, it's kind of the same idea. Airendipity involves you writing a message and then "sending" it out to the universe in the form of a paper airplane. Of course, this is all online so these airplanes always fly!
You can send whatever you want. I chose to send some messages that were positive and that were my mantras to go by. And it's neat because you get to see where your messages have been seen and people can add their comments to it.
I've been reading a lot of messages from others that I don't know and sometimes even compelled to answer them. Some are fun. Some messages are extremely sad. Some are just neat experiments. In the words of Forrest Gump, you never know what you're going to get.
I like that I can respond as some are cries for help and some are just so funny that you can't help but respond. But in all my messages, they've been positive ones. I think that if you're going to put something out, why not something good?
Always great to have more positive energy out there.....maybe you'll get my airplane?
I recently downloaded one called Airendipity and I just love it. For those that follow PostSecret, it's kind of the same idea. Airendipity involves you writing a message and then "sending" it out to the universe in the form of a paper airplane. Of course, this is all online so these airplanes always fly!
You can send whatever you want. I chose to send some messages that were positive and that were my mantras to go by. And it's neat because you get to see where your messages have been seen and people can add their comments to it.
I've been reading a lot of messages from others that I don't know and sometimes even compelled to answer them. Some are fun. Some messages are extremely sad. Some are just neat experiments. In the words of Forrest Gump, you never know what you're going to get.
I like that I can respond as some are cries for help and some are just so funny that you can't help but respond. But in all my messages, they've been positive ones. I think that if you're going to put something out, why not something good?
Always great to have more positive energy out there.....maybe you'll get my airplane?
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
BookIt SUCKS
BookIt is an online travel company that truly just sucks. I've never had a problem before with online companies, but this company is bad news. Bait and switch tactics. Non existent customer service. Not honouring anything we've paid for. And outright lies, lies, lies.
The funniest part about all of this is that they just don't care. Considering all the tweets, facebook messages, etc., they have yet to respond to me. I find that amusing.
BUT having said that, it also shows how crappy of a company they are. So I may be one small consumer. But my power as a consumer can be big. I've taken to Twitter, Facebook, Complaints Board, Better Business Bureau. BookIt has blocked my tweets on their feed because heaven forbid, they don't want anything negative on their feed. But others searching BookIt will see all my complaints as a starter. One retweet from a company...and those followers can retweet, etc.
Social media is a pretty amazing thing but it can be detrimental as that news can spread just as quickly. My friends start passing the information on and so forth.
And maybe the impact won't be "huge". But the word is out there saying they suck. And if I can prevent one person from booking with them, that's one less person having to deal with this crappy company and their lies.
So BookIt...bite me.
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Eyes
I went to the optometrist as I needed a new prescription to get some new contacts. I broke mine (eeek!). They're hard contacts and they were just smashed into pieces. Did I want to spend hundreds of dollars today? Not exactly. But I'm thankful that the contact didn't break in my eyes!
My optometrist has a lot of tests and machines she uses when doing my eye checks. It does take a while, but I find them interesting. If anything, she's thorough. But at this one machine, I had to open my eyes wide. "Open wider please" Ummmm. I'm opening them as wide as I can. She made me try 4 times to open my eyes wider.
She stopped and told me the bad news. She was going to have to tape my eyes open. What the...?!!! Are my eyes THAT small that tape is needed to open my eyes?
Sure enough, the tape kept my eyes wide enough so that the right pictures were taken. Yeah, I was pretty special looking today at the optometrist's office.
The good part is that there is nothing wrong with my eye per se. Just a change in prescription.
I'll never look at tape the same way again.
My optometrist has a lot of tests and machines she uses when doing my eye checks. It does take a while, but I find them interesting. If anything, she's thorough. But at this one machine, I had to open my eyes wide. "Open wider please" Ummmm. I'm opening them as wide as I can. She made me try 4 times to open my eyes wider.
She stopped and told me the bad news. She was going to have to tape my eyes open. What the...?!!! Are my eyes THAT small that tape is needed to open my eyes?
Sure enough, the tape kept my eyes wide enough so that the right pictures were taken. Yeah, I was pretty special looking today at the optometrist's office.
The good part is that there is nothing wrong with my eye per se. Just a change in prescription.
I'll never look at tape the same way again.
Meeting
Been out of commission there for a bit. Work was a bit busy leading up to a meeting for one of our business lines. To me, it was a mini conference.
I asked someone for some feedback today about something at the conference. This person is honest but is great at giving feedback (good or bad). I really respect that. Even when I've received criticism from this person, I've never taken it personally as the information and advice was given for my benefit. And every single time I've listened, it has served me well.
Having said that, this person said something to me that made me know that they understood my role very well. And that is why I continue to go to them for advice. They said that my role was a difficult one as I'm only given so much in resources (let's say $0 folks...call it what it is) and when things are going well, no one notices. But when things go bad, everybody will know my name. And in this case, no one noticed me.
I haven't read the evaluation sheets. I was too tired to care today. Tomorrow is a new day and I can read them over with fresh eyes. Some things I'm just not going to be able to do anything about. Some are totally out of control, i.e. it's against policy or if I have no resources, I can't get certain speakers. It just is.
Until the next one. Oh wait, that's in a couple of weeks......
I asked someone for some feedback today about something at the conference. This person is honest but is great at giving feedback (good or bad). I really respect that. Even when I've received criticism from this person, I've never taken it personally as the information and advice was given for my benefit. And every single time I've listened, it has served me well.
Having said that, this person said something to me that made me know that they understood my role very well. And that is why I continue to go to them for advice. They said that my role was a difficult one as I'm only given so much in resources (let's say $0 folks...call it what it is) and when things are going well, no one notices. But when things go bad, everybody will know my name. And in this case, no one noticed me.
I haven't read the evaluation sheets. I was too tired to care today. Tomorrow is a new day and I can read them over with fresh eyes. Some things I'm just not going to be able to do anything about. Some are totally out of control, i.e. it's against policy or if I have no resources, I can't get certain speakers. It just is.
Until the next one. Oh wait, that's in a couple of weeks.
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Personalities
Sometimes, personalities just clash. There's no rhyme or reason, but they just do. And honestly, it just sucks. It's just way more fun when all of us can get along.
Every Wednesday, my kids have their activities. At this one activity, this one instructor I have had encounters in the past. She's very knowledgeable in her field but I also find that she can put people down because they don't know as much. Or there is a sense of, "you don't volunteer and do as much as us" so I don't really count. Or maybe I've done something and I've just totally offended her. And really, sometimes I just feel like she thinks I'm trash.
Ok, that's fine that she doesn't like me. I'm cordial to her. I say good evening to her everytime she opens the door and I'm there. That's all I'm going to do. Can't do much more.
Can I say I like her? I can't say she's on the top of my list. I can respect the work she does with the kids. I can respect her experience. And I can respect that she is also a busy person with many things to do and I think she does them well.
So we agree to just be "cordial." There are days that I think that's even a stretch. But I can't help it if someone doesn't like me. And I can't help it if I don't feel strongly about them.
It just is.
Every Wednesday, my kids have their activities. At this one activity, this one instructor I have had encounters in the past. She's very knowledgeable in her field but I also find that she can put people down because they don't know as much. Or there is a sense of, "you don't volunteer and do as much as us" so I don't really count. Or maybe I've done something and I've just totally offended her. And really, sometimes I just feel like she thinks I'm trash.
Ok, that's fine that she doesn't like me. I'm cordial to her. I say good evening to her everytime she opens the door and I'm there. That's all I'm going to do. Can't do much more.
Can I say I like her? I can't say she's on the top of my list. I can respect the work she does with the kids. I can respect her experience. And I can respect that she is also a busy person with many things to do and I think she does them well.
So we agree to just be "cordial." There are days that I think that's even a stretch. But I can't help it if someone doesn't like me. And I can't help it if I don't feel strongly about them.
It just is.
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Party
I had a birthday party for my youngest this past weekend. In some ways, I dread the party as it's so close to Christmas and New Year's. It's hard for people to come to this party as they're recovering from all the festivities and getting back to regular life.
But my friends are awesome and they always show up. We chill, we eat, we laugh. Always a good time.
Every year, I try to do a different cake for the kids. At this time, they still enjoy my cakes. In a couple of years, they're going to want other types of kids that doesn't have mom's touch plastered all over it. So I'll savour it.
By no means am I a cake master. I just have fun playing around. My cakes are not "clean" in execution as there always seems to be rough edges, etc. But it doesn't matter...I try and the kids still like it. I didn't make the figurines. Dang. If I did, I'd call myself a master of cakes!
Just like all the parties I have, always great company and a great time. My kid had a lovely time nerf sword fighting with her buddies, running around like a mad kid, and playing plants versus zombies. Goodness knows what else she was doing...but there were no tears.
Thank you to my lovely friends who came out!
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Harrison
There is something to be said about awesome friends and people. This weekend, I was up at Harrison celebrating the 40th birthday of two friends. Granted, they are my friends through association, i.e. my hubby. But his friends have become my friends. And they have been very supportive of me and accepting of me. We crashed at one of the girl's parents houses for this party because it is such a huge mansion. They are some of the coolest parents I know and we totally partied with them.
It was a "small" group considering how big this could have really got. There was about 40 people there and it was an absolute blast. 40 people all there to celebrate two special people. After the surprise was out of the bag, then it was just time to party and socialize with everybody there. We all made the rounds to catch up with whatever was happening in our lives.
I think what was extra fun was that the majority of folks at this party have known each other for over 25 years. I've known many of these for 14 years now. So everybody just chilled. So many laughs....
I wore my Save Your Drama for your Llama shirt as I knew everybody there would get it. There is no drama between these people. I love them because it's that easy with them. And they all wanted one so that they could wear it in situations where there was stupid drama.
Good friendships shouldn't be difficult or trying. It just is. There may be highs and lows with folks as life happens. But if it's a great friendship, it'll survive anything.
So I thank my husband to introducing me to some majorly skookum friends.
It was a "small" group considering how big this could have really got. There was about 40 people there and it was an absolute blast. 40 people all there to celebrate two special people. After the surprise was out of the bag, then it was just time to party and socialize with everybody there. We all made the rounds to catch up with whatever was happening in our lives.
I think what was extra fun was that the majority of folks at this party have known each other for over 25 years. I've known many of these for 14 years now. So everybody just chilled. So many laughs....
I wore my Save Your Drama for your Llama shirt as I knew everybody there would get it. There is no drama between these people. I love them because it's that easy with them. And they all wanted one so that they could wear it in situations where there was stupid drama.
Good friendships shouldn't be difficult or trying. It just is. There may be highs and lows with folks as life happens. But if it's a great friendship, it'll survive anything.
So I thank my husband to introducing me to some majorly skookum friends.
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